Two cousins of mine, both in their early 40's act like this and has friends that act like this too.
One of them busted a stupid move. He got a divorcee pregnant and so he left his wife to be with the divorcee.
But shortly, she met a desperate guy with money and left his ass for this guy and filed child support against my cousin.
So, he comes crawling back to his wife and then they got pregnant. And he refuses to get a job 'cause he doesn't want to pay child support.

Idiots, I tell ya!