is this a good idea?

[No regret]

It's good to fall in love but don't fall too deep, cuz you might not be able to get up once fallen?

[DonJuan]

Falling in love is co-dependency. So yes, you are correct in that statement.

[No regret]

if those people didn't fall too hard for each other, we wouldn't be having these spouse murder suicide.

[kaiyu]

One foot in, one foot out.  Just don't be clumsy and slip into the water.   

It's good to fall in love but don't fall too deep, cuz you might not be able to get up once fallen?

[winerice]

Just give your 100% into the relationship and if it doesn't work out and you know that you've gave your all and move on. That way you won't fell any regret or looking back...

[SV1985]

You mean give yourself to the other person? You should always consider yourself priority. If we're on the same page.

[No regret]

i think falling in love is stupid and it comes with too many complications, how about just being happy with that person?

[DonJuan]

Just give your 100% into the relationship and if it doesn't work out and you know that you've gave your all and move on. That way you won't fell any regret or looking back...

Well said.

[2Wicked]

do it big or go home.   

[Sweet_Tears]

It's good to fall in love but don't fall too deep, cuz you might not be able to get up once fallen?

The question is "can you control your feelings?".. I bet you may be cautious but by the time you know.. you've fallen too deep already.

[MenaceAccord07]

do it big or go home.   

 

[Lavender]

The question is "can you control your feelings?".. I bet you may be cautious but by the time you know.. you've fallen too deep already.

I agree....so best is to let go if you have fear.

[No regret]

The question is "can you control your feelings?".. I bet you may be cautious but by the time you know.. you've fallen too deep already.

honestly i have grown to controlling my feelings for somebody, even though i like'em very much I will only give them just enough admiration and love.  Example, I can give them 10 out of a love scale from 1 to 10 but will only give them a 7, cus that works better for the relationship, and will also make her want more and stay interested.  And should things don't work, my heart and head won't hurt so bad.

I believe for guys, the key is to only be happy in a relationship and not fall in love or be in love, that part is only for the girls.

[Gemini]

you haven't lived if you haven't experienced that once in your life.

[Sweet_Tears]

honestly i have grown to controlling my feelings for somebody, even though i like'em very much I will only give them just enough admiration and love.  Example, I can give them 10 out of a love scale from 1 to 10 but will only give them a 7, cus that works better for the relationship, and will also make her want more and stay interested.  And should things don't work, my heart and head won't hurt so bad.

I believe for guys, the key is to only be happy in a relationship and not fall in love or be in love, that part is only for the girls.

Even though you said that you only give 7 out of 10. I'm sure you went over and above for her. It is in our nature to do so but don't feel bad if you do because we're only human w/emotions. I'm never the type to hold back feelings for someone. If I like/love them. I always give 100% in efforts and in love. If he don't love me in return it's okay. I'm not going to blame him for not feeling the same way toward me. I'll just take it as it wasn't meant to be and move on.

So, another word.. it's okay to fall in love and it's okay to get hurt. Sometimes when you don't show enough they'll leave you too because they might feel neglected. Then what? How would that make you feel? you'll probably be wishing that you've shown more.