Is it just me or all the prettier Hmong women and Asian women dating outside the race?
Are asian men scared of pretty woman? Or they're just rubbing off the wrong way? ...
...Left the bowling alley and she's eyeing us while we leave but then I don't get it? I just don't get it?
First. No, not all the prettier Hmong women and Asian woman dating outside the race. That is a limited viewpoint.
Second. Again, I don't think asian men are scared of dating pretty women. Some groups may be lacking the right toolsets.
And, she may just be staring for any number of reasons. I wouldn't think too much about it.
I do have some questions. What's your definition of pretty? Oh, and does it bother you to know that people are dating or marrying outside the race? Are you accepting of the fact? I'm not trying to be harsh.
Although the Hmong views on this subject is "touchy" to say the least, I want to be real and if you don't agree, to each their own. I'm generally commenting on the entire topic and what I've read so far.
When you look at the whole picture realistically, who is to say that someone is throwing away their culture. That's one person's point of view, or a bunch, it doesn't matter. The individual can hold on to their traditions if they want to. Things will be more difficult. And if they don't take traditions with them, it's okay too.
They were Hmong when they were born. They will be for the rest of their lives. So what if they don't follow traditions and marry inside the culture. That's their own situation to worry/be happy about. What if they get divorce? Life goes on. They will live.
Another argument is that "they'll have mixed kids with identity crisis." Being in America and it being a melting pot enough as it is, that's something that the parents and kids will have to handle. Hopefully they will handle it well with all the criticisms and whatnot.
There are still tons of other Hmong people all over the country and in different countries around the world. We wish we could be united in our own country but right now, unless we create a man-made island, it's not gonna happen. Still, it's not the end of the world, we've got billions in China. Are we still like exactly like them? No. Do you think they are hurt because of that? Maybe, maybe not. Do you care? Probably not. I'm sure some have mixed with Chinese and other Asians as well.
I didn't know for a long time that some of my relatives are not completely Hmong. Some are a quarter mixed with Vietnamese. They speak Hmong, act like Hmong, and follow Hmong traditions. And some of you guys should know, some OG Hmong's hate Vietnamese.
A human is still a human and still has feelings. Shouldn't we be thankful that we ourselves are happy with ourselves as we are?
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