In the next life, I don't want to be reborn as a Hmong. Just being honest. I was brought up traditionally and even oppressed, dragged to social and political events, you nod and bow to your elders, you stay silent. Yet we also grew up around Hispanics, Mien and Laotians, Cambodians, Viet. I was exposed to other cultures and esp this American culture. I never really identified with being Hmong or how I'm suppose to behave like. I use to question my mom why we're to do this and that and she'll just snap and say that's the way its suppose to be. I butted heads with her a lot growing up. She has a strong personality too. I'm not ashamed of my family, I just wouldn't want to be Hmong if given a new life. Its not like fobby Hmong folks don't hate on modernized Hmong families. In fact got relatives like that who harp and critisize about non traditional families that their kids are so bad and can't speak a lick of Hmong. Haha funny I can read and write but I stutter when I speak Hmong. Oh well ain't nobody perfect in this life.