my take on love and relationships

[chuleej]

thus far everyone's take on love isn't what I would consider love to be exact by my experience but rather attachment to an emotion anyone relying on this emotion to keep their relationship endless is doom to failure, its as saying the cloud is the sky, but cloud comes n go and the sky is ever present beyond the cloud though it is at times not visible to the eye yet its alway there. love is a choice not swaying helplessly left and right and follow it blindly, when you genuinely love someone all emotion such as hate, desire and so on for that person dissolved, in natures love is symbolize by the Sun: warmth, and giving unconditional nourishment to all that is ever live on earth whether it be good or evil, the nature of Love is warm if you love someone the feeling is warm and comfortable even that person can feel it at your presence or perhaps even at a distance w/out you uttering a single word just like Vageta ending his life(the most powerful scene) for Buma Trunk and Goku during that fight with Mochinbu that is love. You love by choice and not being driven by your emotions.  

[Solemn Wind]

LOVE IS A B!TCH!!! Plain and simple guys...no such thing.

I wonder what a serial killer, such as Jeffrey Dahmer's definition of love is? Killing gay guys, chop them up, store it in the freezer, and then just enjoy them?

[tetrapod]

LOVE IS A B!TCH!!! Plain and simple guys...no such thing.

I wonder what a serial killer, such as Jeffrey Dahmer's definition of love is? Killing gay guys, chop them up, store it in the freezer, and then just enjoy them?

That side get turn on by body parts.  Love misplaced.

[tetrapod]

LOVE IS A B!TCH!!! Plain and simple guys...no such thing.

I wonder what a serial killer, such as Jeffrey Dahmer's definition of love is? Killing gay guys, chop them up, store it in the freezer, and then just enjoy them?

[Solemn Wind]

That side get turn on by body parts.  Love misplaced.

The point of what I'm trying to say is that love is whatever you want it to be. It's all about how you FEEL and it is based on zero LOGIC and REASONING.

Take for example the woman who's spent 30 years with her husband...givi ng him children, inspiration, success, and so much more. A year later he comes back from Laos with his 16 year-old bride, kicked his loving life partner to the curb because he's in love.

Or take the the so in-love and loving couple who's been with each other for two years and about to get married. While he's out of town on business for a couple of weeks she met a white man, fall in love with the white man, and just totally burn her boyfriend in the dust as if she had never known or seen him before.

Or the young high school sweetheart couple who have been through so much with each other and even went to college together. While in college, she works and support her boyfriend who attends college. Just right before he graduated from college, he met a 16 year-old girl, fell in love, and marries her within a month. This case burns me like crazy even I have nothing to do with...but because I know the woman he kick to the curb. But who can blame him...he's in love.

[Solemn Wind]

That side get turn on by body parts.  Love misplaced.

And of course, who is to say that Jeffrey Dahmer wasn't loving or in love when he did things like that. He just love differently from the vast majority of the population.

[Solemn Wind]

aha.  it reminds me of my sister-in-law's older sis.  Her husand and her did real estate here and lived a decent life for many years with many young kids.  The husband somehow encouraged the wife to sell all their estates.  He then went to Laos and back with a younger wife.  He changed everything to the younger wife's name. 

The older wife lives in poverty with her younger siblings and elderly mom.

Love has no honor.  Men have two faces and are liars.  Women are either too dumb or too trusting to be played over by scumbags. 

Must have woke up on the wrong side of bed this morning...

Well...Love is just like God...It also works in mysterious ways as well.

[Solemn Wind]

Love has no honor.  Men have two faces and are liars.  Women are either too dumb or too trusting to be played over by scumbags.  

But to be fair, most women likes two-faced men and players.

Most of the intelligent and honorable men usually learn early in life that if you want the woman, you must always say what she wants to hear.

The creation of jerks and a$$holes are largely women's creation as well. Love is just like business, it's all about supply and demand. Some years, nice guys are more in demand...but in most years, women can't get enough of jerks and a$$holes.

[DonJuan]

But to be fair, most women likes two-faced men and players.

Most of the intelligent and honorable men usually learn early in life that if you want the woman, you must always say what she wants to hear.

The creation of jerks and a$$holes are largely women's creation as well. Love is just like business, it's all about supply and demand. Some years, nice guys are more in demand...but in most years, women can't get enough of jerks and a$$holes.

Anger you have my fellow. I like your first statement better: love is a B-I-T-C-H Because it exists not.
And yes, they are jerks.
And yes, insecured women fall for those.

But a strong loving woman does not. Patience is your friend. Destinity has a plan.

[Solemn Wind]

Anger you have my fellow. I like your first statement better: love is a B-I-T-C-H Because it exists not.
And yes, they are jerks.
And yes, insecured women fall for those.

But a strong loving woman does not. Patience is your friend. Destinity has a plan.

Because I used the words jerks and a$$holes I have anger? I just like to tell as it is in plain and simple language that even a person reading at a first grade level can understand. Even if I was, which I'm not, it's still far less than half as serious as an issue as someone who loves to pretend that he is above this thing called "love."

And knowing you, so predictable in your "pretentious" enlightenment ways, you will probably say something like, "My brother, there goes your anger again and you didn't even realized it."

[tetrapod]

What is love making?  Love making produces love?  That what love is.   

[Solemn Wind]

What is love making?  Love making produces love?  That what love is.   

It's also called "sex" or just "fuccking."