"American" wedding or/and Hmong wedding?

[theForumGuard]

what's important to you and/or your partner? It seems most Hmong prefer an American wedding nowadays.

[freebird]

HMONG, and preferably in my backyard. I think I want pizza hut to cater for me but the partner may want to grill hot dogs instead.

[non dormis]

We're going to get married by an African witch doctor in Africa
can't wait.
it's going to be awesome.

[theForumGuard]

We're going to get married by an African witch doctor in Africa
can't wait.
it's going to be awesome.

are you going to use your other account to back you up?

[primetime]

I think if we have to let the elders know and make them happy, you should go the traditional route first.

[Peachy Fish]

what's important to you and/or your partner? It seems most Hmong prefer an American wedding nowadays.

We're incorporating parts of a Hmong and Vietnamese and Miskas wedding. The most important part is to make sure we have our families there and that they enjoy their time.

[theForumGuard]

I think if we have to let the elders know and make them happy, you should go the traditional route first.

I'm with you on this one. We should feel special when it comes to a Hmong wedding, and it shows respect for both families and ancestors.

[aria]

I just got married and I had the choice for both or either and I just went with the traditional Hmong wedding. My biggest reason is that both my husband and I prefer to stay out of the limelight so it'll be awkward for the both of us to be the "centers of attentions". But my Hmong wedding was very pretty. My family put out canopies, flowers, got wedding cakes, cooked delicious food.

[jon_jon]

I just got married and I had the choice for both or either and I just went with the traditional Hmong wedding. My biggest reason is that both my husband and I prefer to stay out of the limelight so it'll be awkward for the both of us to be the "centers of attentions". But my Hmong wedding was very pretty. My family put out canopies, flowers, got wedding cakes, cooked delicious food.

congrats aria

HMONG, and preferably in my backyard. I think I want pizza hut to cater for me but the partner may want to grill hot dogs instead.

Will you marry me!!! Don't worry we can have pizza hut and hot dogs.

[AOZ]

only hmong wedding for my girls.  i don't believe in all this mekas wedding. 

[non dormis]

are you going to use your other account to back you up?

only when you stop being an idiot
(not sure if that will happen soon enough)

[jon_jon]

i do both... at the same time...

reserve two rooms, one side for the Hmong wedding and the other for the American wedding.

at the end have a big reception.

[HPA]

Probably just a meska wedding.  How obvious, huh?   

[MSV]

Although I don’t like that whole idea of just having an all meat-based menu….I still prefer my Hmong wedding and that’s it. I would rather save money for a nice home than invest it in another wedding.

[jon_jon]

BBQ in the backyard is fine with me too...

or else wedding on the beach as the sunrises from the east..

reception on the beach as the sunsets...