Outside the Box

[Lady_Fallin]

Sometimes what's inside the box is all you need.

[Evelynn]

Most of the time, nam tais yawm txiv, neej ntshav wouldn't support their daughter/sister to leave, but when they do, it's because they see that he's not a good husband or father.  Rarely, a person will not change for you, but s/he will change for the next spouse...somet imes they don't even learn after being divorce 2-3 times.

It's hard to stay, like living in the dark, but yet, it's hard to let go and start over.  You know what you want, fight the battle, and win the war.   If you choose to stay, humble your heart w/ patience, and love him like no other woman can and hope he opens his eyes.  Txuj kev ua puj nraub/nkauj faa is a rough road, too.

The first divorce, it's the other person's (your case, him) fault.  The second is one's own fault.

#1 thing to an unhappy home, lack of love & communication.

[yuknowthat]

I don't know anyone in that situation that doesn't have a kid or kids so I look at it as they're trying to make it work for the family. I believe and hope most would try to make it work instead of just leaving when things don't go their way.

[Gen. Invincible]

Most of the time, nam tais yawm txiv, neej ntshav wouldn't support their daughter/sister to leave, but when they do, it's because they see that he's not a good husband or father.  Rarely, a person will not change for you, but s/he will change for the next spouse...somet imes they don't even learn after being divorce 2-3 times.

It's hard to stay, like living in the dark, but yet, it's hard to let go and start over.  You know what you want, fight the battle, and win the war.   If you choose to stay, humble your heart w/ patience, and love him like no other woman can and hope he opens his eyes.  Txuj kev ua puj nraub/nkauj faa is a rough road, too.

The first divorce, it's the other person's (your case, him) fault.  The second is one's own fault.

#1 thing to an unhappy home, lack of love & communication.

The third is really the ringer.....it tells you was it really them or is it really me....

[BuckFuddies2]

I want some Jack in the Box 2 tacos for 99cents.

[Believe_N_Me]

Has anyone of you or know anyone who stayed in their relationship (say married couples) because they're too afraid of what's outside the box? You've known only that person and that person is your everything and when you think or know it's time to leave but you're scared because you don't know what could, would happen. You're afraid of the dark future you'll have to encounter because at least when you're with them, you still have the support of both sides of the family, etc etc?

Do they have legitimate reasons to leave? People make up all sorts of excuses when they get bored so be a little more specific.

[AF-Wife]

That is why you don't rush into marriage and try to explore outside the box as much as you can before making that committment. 

[1luv]

1.  Do people still get with and marry a person who is not confidence in themselves? 

2.  if you leave me, you know I can get with someone else.  You like me for my confidence.