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Offline MSV

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Re: Stranger talks
« Reply #15 on: December 28, 2011, 04:06:01 PM »
Well your heart for attachment is different from your heart of life. Like your love for a family member or friend or lover

But any which way you choose to look at it, a heart is still a heart at the end of the day. It’s already programmed to function a certain way and even if you did replace it with a new one or told it to do something else, it’ll continue doing what it was supposed to do. Doesn’t matter if we are talking to strangers, lovers, family, friends, creatures, non-living things…heck….even if we aren’t saying a single word…what I’m trying to say is…the heart will attach first before it can draw out a message to the receiver. Just because you don’t acknowledge its attachment doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist. But if you're referring to the degree of attachment, than that's a different story within itself.

Coming from a lady’s perspective, I highly doubt you’ll be able to connect with a woman on such levels you wish to go and still expect her to not to get too close to you. “Playful flirting” and “strictly just sharing stories” should remain in two categories. When you start meshing them together, that’s when you are pushing the “mixed feelings”  button. We don’t like that and don’t want that.  >:(



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Re: Stranger talks
« Reply #16 on: December 29, 2011, 02:06:34 PM »
But any which way you choose to look at it, a heart is still a heart at the end of the day. It’s already programmed to function a certain way and even if you did replace it with a new one or told it to do something else, it’ll continue doing what it was supposed to do. Doesn’t matter if we are talking to strangers, lovers, family, friends, creatures, non-living things…heck….even if we aren’t saying a single word…what I’m trying to say is…the heart will attach first before it can draw out a message to the receiver. Just because you don’t acknowledge its attachment doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist. But if you're referring to the degree of attachment, than that's a different story within itself.

Coming from a lady’s perspective, I highly doubt you’ll be able to connect with a woman on such levels you wish to go and still expect her to not to get too close to you. “Playful flirting” and “strictly just sharing stories” should remain in two categories. When you start meshing them together, that’s when you are pushing the “mixed feelings”  button. We don’t like that and don’t want that.  >:(

Well you're right about the heart but there a variables and others things involve to make things more difficult. Their feelings is what you make of it.




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