What should be change?

[lifemystery]

& what should be keep in the Hmong traditional weddings?

[MSV]

1. I don't like the whole idea of making the groom drink to the point where he's beyond the point of "drunk". It's especially dangerous for those who aren't regular drinkers or can't handle much alcohol...

2. As much as I dislike the whole bridepricing aspect, I  think it should be kept. IMO, it somewhat symbolizes a man's self-sufficiency.

3. I like cov nkauj tshoob heev!

4. Don't have an all meat cuisine or make those boys eat that thick chunk of lard. lol. Greens and especially hot chilli pepper should be allowed!

That's all I can think of right now...

[Reporter]

& what should be keep in the Hmong traditional weddings?

Never ever again serve some other relative's bitter grudge with another relative's supposedly sweet wedding meal.

Otherwise, keep all the drinks--yes, the sweet drinks and even sour sodas and whiskeys--and the foods:lards and chards and laj and anything that sparks or what-have-yas.

[IB TIAM NEEJ]

The bowing down on your knees need to change. Everything else can stay.