Breaking up is hard to do....

[red_velvet]

Been dating this dude for over 3-years... Yes the heart is broken and I've been contiplating on dropping the news to him that "it's over".  Cant take it no more.

When I think about the reality of things in telling him today it should not matter to any circumstance - I still have nothing to hold on to him but how I really feel for him... "love is a powerful feeling" does this count for anything? is this enough to hold on to him?  is there more?

I'm so confused.

[non dormis]

why are you confused?
if you feel it's not going to work out just tell them.

[red_velvet]

Love is complicated... sometimes.  I know words are just words, but when you hear someone tell you that you mean so much to them, and that he's the only he loves... it just makes everything better, right?

Telling him... is the hardest thing. Emotional rush always interfears with everything.  I thought it was going to work out for him and I.... he and I have changed so much together and apart from each other.  I cant help this feeling if he's just waiting for me to drop the news to him.

3-yrs.... should I have closure or let the relationship die out by itself?  either way I'm at a point I dont want to care about mending/work on the relationship anymore?

[red_velvet]

He's not my first love... but the 2nd love I have found.
All my feelings all laid out to him emotionally and physically and all the above.

[tetrapod]

I'm addicted to video games.  It was hard smashing my video games but I had to do it for myself.  Learn from me.

[red_velvet]

the difference about you is that you have an addiction to video games.. I don't mine is just about a "guy who I have shared a portion of my life with". 

Cant learn much from your comment   

[lifemystery]

Every time I break up with a lady. She cries.

[non dormis]

Love is complicated... sometimes. 

i don't think it is. maybe you just need a good nights rest. whatever you decide to do just be honest. no sugar coating. you'll feel better after.

[non dormis]

Every time I break up with a lady. She cries.

dolls don't cry. duh.

[tetrapod]

the difference about you is that you have an addiction to video games.. I don't mine is just about a "guy who I have shared a portion of my life with". 

Cant learn much from your comment   

It is the same.  Yog are addicted to a guy.  Yog know leaving is good for yog but yog don't want the pain.  It was painful chor me to destroy my games.

[red_velvet]

Every time I break up with a lady. She cries.

Your probably the HEARTBREAK she never saw coming....  I hate it when a guy makes the girl cry.

[lifemystery]

Your probably the HEARTBREAK she never saw coming....  I hate it when a guy makes the girl cry.

She wasn't my type.

[Sweet_Tears]

Are you the one that wants to break up with him?  Most people who do not love that person anymore... do not care how that person feels even it means breaking their heart.

[red_velvet]

i don't think it is. maybe you just need a good nights rest. whatever you decide to do just be honest. no sugar coating. you'll feel better after.

The depression is kicking in...  trying to make sense of everything but it ends up more confusing than everything. this is the hardest part of a long-term relationship.. .breaking up.

Sugar coating it - not going to happen, reality is way better.

[PojNiamLubSiab]

She wasn't my type.

then why date in the first place?

I'm addicted to video games.  It was hard smashing my video games but I had to do it for myself.  Learn from me.

GOOD JOB!