whoa! did i hear or read it right? marriage with a parent's approval, "the bride stays in the kitchen the whole night and the groom hides somewhere, the next day, she returns to her parent's home" and can continue dating or courting until she give birth, then can she go to her husband's home?
what? 
I've heard that if you're dating a "Cu", you'll have to get her pregnant and give that baby to her parents, if she's the only child, before you can marry her. Also, when you go date the girl, you are suppose to take her directly to her bedroom otherwise the parents think you are not man enough for their daughter.