A woman to fill my emptiness?

[tetrapod]

It seems I have been feeling very empty the last few days.  I eat too much, go online too much, and did nothing too much.  I have important things that I must do but it is so hard to start them.  It's like a train that has stop and it seems to be not moving.  Many people want to be like me.  Some said they would be happy if they were me.   Yet I'm not happy.  I have enough money to live on instant noodle for many years.  I'm not homeless.  I have a rusty car.  I have security.  I have met my basic survival needs and now I'm feeling empty.  Does having a woman help?

[tetrapod]

Hanging out with friends does seem to help.

[DonJuan]

If your story is correct, you have the basic human traits: mild depression to depression natural state.

You do need a drug or addiction for you to find yourself high or happy again which is above the depression level.
What kind of addiction? Love is most addictive and powerful drug that change your reality perception.
You can also go after money, status, fame. There are plenty of drugs out there.

Good luck.

[PojNiamLubSiab]

Hanging out with friends does seem to help.

But they can't always hang out w/you because they have their own life.
If you have a woman to share your life and hers together that would be even better.
TABSIS tej thaum pojniam haj yam ua rau yus nyuaj siab hahah thaum ntawd yus yuav nco yus qhov single life =P

[MSV]

You just need a little spice in your life. Sometimes I feel like I need a man cause I keep having that lonely and empty feeling but I found that if I went out and did things....I'm good. Looks like I just got kinda bored with my everyday routine and mistaken it for needing that special someone to help me have some fun. No doubt it'd be nicer to share every little good thing you do with someone but in the meantime I just fly........

Perhaps a woman might be able to help you but do keep in mind she might add too much for you to handle too. lol.

Take a breather outside. The world is awaiting you.

[lifemystery]

The only person that can fill that emptiness is yourself, though others can be a factor by putting on the pressure, but it is you that's letting the emptiness in.

[aHMONGrican guy]

You just need to get laid bro.. You'll feel like a new man!  

[LadyLionness]

It seems I have been feeling very empty the last few days.  I eat too much, go online too much, and did nothing too much.  I have important things that I must do but it is so hard to start them.  It's like a train that has stop and it seems to be not moving.  Many people want to be like me.  Some said they would be happy if they were me.   Yet I'm not happy.  I have enough money to live on instant noodle for many years.  I'm not homeless.  I have a rusty car.  I have security.  I have met my basic survival needs and now I'm feeling empty.  Does having a woman help?

No.  Go and join the army.  I once heard that if you married out of loneliness, then once you are married, you are no longer lonely, thus you do not want to be married anymore.  Go and join the Army.  You won't be lonely and when you get out, you will have your choices of any of the women you may want.

[tetrapod]

No.  Go and join the army.  I once heard that if you married out of loneliness, then once you are married, you are no longer lonely, thus you do not want to be married anymore.  Go and join the Army.  You won't be lonely and when you get out, you will have your choices of any of the women you may want.

My problem is not loneliness.

[tetrapod]

I think you just need sex. That's a basic human need. If you can't get a woman, use your hands more often as orgasm can rid of headaches.

I doubt that. 

I think the benefit is from interacting with the other person.  Sex is like eating ice cream.  Sharing it with someone makes it more worth while. 

[LadyLionness]

Emptiness = Loneliness

[hmong meeka]

I think you just need sex. That's a basic human need. If you can't get a woman, use your hands more often as orgasm can rid of headaches.

agreed!!!  sounds like its been awhile for you...you should jus go pull one!  and im not trying to be rude about it also. 

[hmong meeka]

I doubt that. 

I think the benefit is from interacting with the other person.  Sex is like eating ice cream.  Sharing it with someone makes it more worth while. 

of course silly, but ur not doing ne thing about it!!!   My advice, get out and do something, your not gonna find ne one sitting home on your lab top. or if you do..its so skeptical, ur not even sure about the other person seriousness, let alone, thinking about how they really look like 

[LELIA]

I think you just need sex. That's a basic human need. If you can't get a woman, use your hands more often as orgasm can rid of headaches.

[parana]

I think you just need sex. That's a basic human need. If you can't get a woman, use your hands more often as orgasm can rid of headaches.

someone took the words out of my mind  .  Yes, having someone who you can connect physically and spiritually helps.