5 ways you can tell:
1) by way of
sight: take notice of her dressing out of the ordinary, seeing her facial expressions when talking to you (guilty look, unable to make eye contacts)...most evident is seeing her with someone else.
2) by way of
smell: scent of a different COLOGNE, "something

smells fishy"
3) by way of touch: she's unbearable to your touch (hands are swept away as you reach out to hold her, avoids kissing you and lack of sex).
4) by way of
hearing: hearing of rumors, maybe her private conversations, but mostly when she's improperly addressing you (calling you names, talking shiet to you and/or simply the lack of communication, there of..not talking to you at all).
5) by way of
taste: her preparation of food is bland, you get left overs when she's packing lunch..worst of all you don't get to taste those sweet lips as often as you like.