Is a Hmong woman being 30 and single too old?

[theForumGuard]

I'm curious...

[theForumGuard]

at what age does a single woman begin to be considered old?

[NkaujNom]

30? No. 40? Probably. Studies have shown that the older the women are, the less likely they are to be fertile and have children. Nowadays, adults are establishing themselves before settling down.

[lifemystery]

No

[theForumGuard]

most Hmong women marry before 25. So how do Hmong people view single women over 25?

[DonJuan]

For Hmong nowadays: me say 27-30.

Of course it depends how old you are too!!!

[HLEEYANG86]

in my opinion, i would say 25-30 is too old if you are still single with no kids and family of your own..

[LadyLionness]

in my opinion, i would say 25-30 is too old if you are still single with no kids and family of your own..

Maybe from a young person's point of view, but from someone old like me, 25 to 30 is the perfect age to be thinking about marriage and looking for the right one.  That's when they are the most mature, know who they are and who they want to be married to... and not think that love is  enough... that love will conquer all.

[DonJuan]

Maybe from a young person's point of view, but from someone old like me, 25 to 30 is the perfect age to be thinking about marriage and looking for the right one.  That's when they are the most mature, know who they are and who they want to be married to... and not think that love is  enough... that love will conquer all.

In my experience, Hmong tend not to reach their full maturity till around 30. So yes!

[LadyLionness]

In my experience, Hmong tend not to reach their full maturity till around 30. So yes!

I am in that group of peaking at 30 as well...

[AF-Wife]

Within the Hmong community, they would think a 30 year old Hmong woman is too old to be single but not within the American community. 

[jon_jon]

What about a single Hmong guy in his early 30s?...

Is that too old for a Hmong guy w/out kids, never been married, career-minded, and looking?...

[IB TIAM NEEJ]

I'm curious...

10 years ago yes. Today, no. Who cares what's right or wrong or what's socially acceptable. It's all about what's right for you.

[AF-Wife]

What about a single Hmong guy in his early 30s?...

Is that too old for a Hmong guy w/out kids, never been married, career-minded, and looking?...

single Hmong guy in his 30s is not too old...

[Lan Xang]

10 years ago yes. Today, no. Who cares what's right or wrong or what's socially acceptable. It's all about what's right for you.

I agree that age is but a number. It's truly is what's right for you. Good point IB TIAM NEEJ.