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Re: Is a Hmong woman being 30 and single too old?
« Reply #15 on: January 03, 2012, 08:49:41 AM »
How you know someone is old.  Ask them how long they've been contributing to their 401k.  If its more than 10 years, they are old.



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Re: Is a Hmong woman being 30 and single too old?
« Reply #16 on: January 03, 2012, 10:14:40 AM »
Quote from: IB TIAM NEEJ on January 03, 2012, 05:17:33 AM
10 years ago yes. Today, no. Who cares what's right or wrong or what's socially acceptable. It's all about what's right for you.

I agree. But keep in mind the dating pool drastically narrows down and choices become extremely limited.



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Re: Is a Hmong woman being 30 and single too old?
« Reply #17 on: January 03, 2012, 12:15:48 PM »
Quote from: DonJuan on January 03, 2012, 10:14:40 AM
I agree. But keep in mind the dating pool drastically narrows down and choices become extremely limited.

I'll keep that in mind.  ;)



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Re: Is a Hmong woman being 30 and single too old?
« Reply #18 on: January 03, 2012, 12:17:23 PM »
It's not as limited as we think.  The only problem is that many of these people give up, stay home, and no one knows that they exist.  We need to have a yearly get together of all Hmong single, never been married, age 25+ conference...



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Re: Is a Hmong woman being 30 and single too old?
« Reply #19 on: January 03, 2012, 12:32:16 PM »
May a Lao guy join in  :) ;D



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Re: Is a Hmong woman being 30 and single too old?
« Reply #20 on: January 03, 2012, 12:35:59 PM »
For a Hmong woman it's cutting it close to being old, but here in America, I think 40 is old for a woman. 30 is barely cutting it but in a guy's perspective we still prefer the 21 year old girl.



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Re: Is a Hmong woman being 30 and single too old?
« Reply #21 on: January 03, 2012, 12:38:54 PM »
Not for me, 21 is too young. I want experience  ;D



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Re: Is a Hmong woman being 30 and single too old?
« Reply #22 on: January 03, 2012, 12:55:33 PM »
Quote from: proudlao on January 03, 2012, 12:32:16 PM
May a Lao guy join in  :) ;D

Any time.  If a woman is to go outside Hmong, it's best with another Asian... the cultures and mindset are more similar.



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Re: Is a Hmong woman being 30 and single too old?
« Reply #23 on: January 03, 2012, 01:06:45 PM »
 O0 COOL Keep me in mind when you set up one of these conference.  :)



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Re: Is a Hmong woman being 30 and single too old?
« Reply #24 on: January 03, 2012, 01:07:25 PM »
Quote from: proudlao on January 03, 2012, 01:06:45 PM
O0 COOL Keep me in mind when you set up one of these conference.  :)

Someone should... but it won't be me... lolz...



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Re: Is a Hmong woman being 30 and single too old?
« Reply #25 on: January 03, 2012, 01:42:37 PM »
Quote from: AF-Wife on January 03, 2012, 02:02:10 AM
Within the Hmong community, they would think a 30 year old Hmong woman is too old to be single but not within the American community. 

I agree...a single 30 yr woman in the hmong community would be considereold.. .but not in the American culture.



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Re: Is a Hmong woman being 30 and single too old?
« Reply #26 on: January 03, 2012, 02:11:48 PM »
Is this why we Asian get married so young?  :o or is it because the women can't keep their hands off us men  ;D



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Re: Is a Hmong woman being 30 and single too old?
« Reply #27 on: January 03, 2012, 02:16:19 PM »
Quote from: proudlao on January 03, 2012, 02:11:48 PM
Is this why we Asian get married so young?  :o or is it because the women can't keep their hands off us men  ;D

You wish... us women just want you heart... you men want our bodies... lolz...



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Re: Is a Hmong woman being 30 and single too old?
« Reply #28 on: January 03, 2012, 02:27:29 PM »
The marriage is less of a chance to work out/end up divorcing if the couple gets married at a young age from 15-21. I say for me age 22-28 should be wonderful at a dating level. Age of 28-35 people start to consider settling down.


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Re: Is a Hmong woman being 30 and single too old?
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