Is a Hmong woman being 30 and single too old?

[primetime]

That's just your number, hmong society does't think so.

For hmong women, once they pass 27 and not married, people will think what's wrong with her, why doesn't anybody want to married her?

For hmong men, once they pass 35, people will think what's wrong with him too?

We hmong people aren't fully adapted to the american ways yet and still get married pretty early on, so if you wait too long people think something's wrong with you.  I've been ask that before when i hit 30, some relative guy asked if somethings wrong with me or my life preventing me from getting married and for me to let them know so they can help.

HELL YEAH, if a woman finally starts looking for a mate at 27+, she's behind considering most likely it's going to take months just to meet someone, then a year or so just to get to know them.

[NceegVaj]

Yeah, 30 is when the rubber band canal is loosened up.  Sex is not that good.

[Fresno559]

20 and down is old !

[magicofju]

32 no previous marriages, no kids, I come and go as I please, don't need to answer to anybody, don't care what anybody says or think of single older women. When I find him I will gladly go to him. In fact some married friends and relatives advise I just stay single. Perhaps they envy my lifestyle or want me to save myself from the mistakes they've made? If you're a Hmong man who scrutinize older females, nothing wrong with going back to Laos for fresh virgin. Hmong ways and mentality are so bogus and stupid most of the time anyway.

[DonJuan]

32 no previous marriages, no kids, I come and go as I please, don't need to answer to anybody, don't care what anybody says or think of single older women. When I find him I will gladly go to him. In fact some married friends and relatives advise I just stay single. Perhaps they envy my lifestyle or want me to save myself from the mistakes they've made? If you're a Hmong man who scrutinize older females, nothing wrong with going back to Laos for fresh virgin. Hmong ways and mentality are so bogus and stupid most of the time anyway.

[magicofju]

Thanks for the thumbup!

[Dauv Taw]

Is a Hmong woman being 30 and single too old?

I'm still single, but when I do settle down, she must be between 25-30. 

1)  She must be done or not interested in the 'club scene'.
2)  Must at least have a BA/BS
3)  Fertile: therefore over 30 will not give me enough time for a medium size family.  No more kids after she is 35.

Just being real.

[luvlylisa]

Is a Hmong woman being 30 and single too old?

I'm still single, but when I do settle down, she must be between 25-30. 

1)  She must be done or not interested in the 'club scene'.
2)  Must at least have a BA/BS
3)  Fertile: therefore over 30 will not give me enough time for a medium size family.  No more kids after she is 35.

Just being real.

Interesting...

[Ron Burgundy]

32 no previous marriages, no kids, I come and go as I please, don't need to answer to anybody, don't care what anybody says or think of single older women. When I find him I will gladly go to him. In fact some married friends and relatives advise I just stay single. Perhaps they envy my lifestyle or want me to save myself from the mistakes they've made? If you're a Hmong man who scrutinize older females, nothing wrong with going back to Laos for fresh virgin. Hmong ways and mentality are so bogus and stupid most of the time anyway.

There's nothing wrong with the way you want to live your life.

[jon_jon]

Would you marry a 30 year old girl or a 20 year old if you're a 30+ year old guy?.......

[Medulla]

Would you marry a 30 year old girl or a 20 year old if you're a 30+ year old guy?.......

If I were 30+ male, of course I'd marry a 20 yr old.  Because these older b*tches emasculate me.

[Medulla]

So would a 30+ yr old man rather marry someone 25 with 3 kids or 30, single, established, with no kids? (no disrespect to single mothers)  30 doesn't look so old anymore huh.

[Ron Burgundy]

So would a 30+ yr old man rather marry someone 25 with 3 kids or 30, single, established, with no kids? (no disrespect to single mothers)  30 doesn't look so old anymore huh.

That would depend on how the man is.  Does he have a big heart, and would he be willing to love those kids like his own?  If there's any hesitation in answering that, then he should go for the 30 yo single with no kids.

[Medulla]

That would depend on how the man is.  Does he have a big heart, and would he be willing to love those kids like his own?  If there's any hesitation in answering that, then he should go for the 30 yo single with no kids.

He could if he got to know her and the kids.  But let's just say for the sake of this thread that he dont' know these people.

[Ron Burgundy]

Well, he shouldn't even consider dating a divorcee with kids if he's not willing to accept or open to the fact that he may need to be an immediate father.