Every longterm relationship will deal w/ cheating at some point....

[Calypso]

This is somethin that I've heard many ppl say. Do u think it's true? Why or why not?

[AOZ]

it's not cheating if you aren't married yet!!

only cheating once u tie the not!! 

[Calypso]

it's not cheating if you aren't married yet!!

only cheating once u tie the not!!  

Longterm relationship, so that includes marriage too. Is it bound to happen in every marriage at some point too?

[freebird]

it's not cheating if you aren't married yet!!

only cheating once u tie the not!! 

that's so 1960s. it's 2012. cheating is cheating. married or not.

Calypso, I've never heard that before. Perhaps it's simply because of time. The longer you are with someone, the more you expose yourself to their life, the people they encounter, the changes in them (and you), etc etc etc.

[AOZ]

Longterm relationship, so that includes marriage too. Is it bound to happen in every marriage at some point too?

this is why so many of you can't seem to find the right mate.  you commit yourself before marriage... then your relationships fail and u start to view marriage as a bad thing.

that's so 1960s. it's 2012. cheating is cheating. married or not.

Calypso, I've never heard that before. Perhaps it's simply because of time. The longer you are with someone, the more you expose yourself to their life, the people they encounter, the changes in them (and you), etc etc etc.

exactly... it's 2012.  even more reason as to why it is not cheating if you have  no paper to obligate you to another person.  hehehe.  

why are you giving your love so easily away to someone who will not marry you?  

[jiggles]

Hmm idk ... You think so? 

[non dormis]

This is somethin that I've heard many ppl say. Do u think it's true? Why or why not?

my wife and i were married young and we married for 10 years. we never had that problem.  she passed away on an expedition trying to save endangered tuna fishes though. rest her soul.

[freebird]

lol shaddup derp. we having serious talk about cheaters here.

this is why so many of you can't seem to find the right mate.  you commit yourself before marriage... then your relationships fail and u start to view marriage as a bad thing.
exactly... it's 2012.  even more reason as to why it is not cheating if you have  no paper to obligate you to another person.  hehehe. 

why are you giving your love so easily away to someone who will not marry you?   

Actually, married people make marriage look bad 

It's a matter of principle.

[AOZ]

lol shaddup derp. we having serious talk about cheaters here.
Actually, married people make marriage look bad 

It's a matter of principle.

you talking about those married couples who never dated others nor partied b4 they married. then after they marry... they start partying... and clubing... and etc?  are those making marriage look bad?

looking on the bright side.. .at least these couples are still togehter and they make it work for their marriage.

what doesn't make sense are those who aren't even married and act like they are married by living together and having children without being married.  and what doesn't make any sense at all is those women who are in such relationships .... who devote all their time to their boyfirends... like 5-10 years... just to get dumped by the bf who leaves her another whom he just met. 

[AOZ]

when you are single.. that's the time to get all the cheating and partying of your system so that when you find "the one" you are done with your single ways and ready to build a family with him and her. 

[freebird]

Splitting up happens even for married couple. Young, old, cheaters or not. I wasn't referring to any specific type of people, os. But there are plenty topics here that examplifies why marriage isn't as appealing as it should be. I'm just saying that the sanctity of marriage has been desecrated by the selfishness, childishness, and irresponsible character of those who are married.

You may think you are better off being married and miserable rather than single and miserable but you're not.

I also don't believe someone who cheats will suddenly stop cheating just because they are married.

[jiggles]

Splitting up happens even for married couple. Young, old, cheaters or not. I wasn't referring to any specific type of people, os. But there are plenty topics here that examplifies why marriage isn't as appealing as it should be. I'm just saying that the sanctity of marriage has been desecrated by the selfishness, childishness, and irresponsible character of those who are married.

You may think you are better off being married and miserable rather than single and miserable but you're not.

I also don't believe someone who cheats will suddenly stop cheating just because they are married.

yep. if someones gonna cheat they'll cheat whether married or single. you dont get married in hopes that he/she will stop cheating on you. you solve your problems then get married, not get married to solve your problems. 

[non dormis]

yep. if someones gonna cheat they'll cheat whether married or single. you dont get married in hopes that he/she will stop cheating on you. you solve your problems then get married, not get married to solve your problems. 

that's not true because i used to cheat all the time until i found my wife. she thought she could change me so we married and she was right. i became a changed person all thanks to her.

of course after she passed away i started cheating again. but that's besides the point.

[jiggles]

that's not true because i used to cheat all the time until i found my wife. she thought she could change me so we married and she was right. i became a changed person all thanks to her.

of course after she passed away i started cheating again. but that's besides the point.

You didnt want to cheat so u didnt. If the person wanted to cheat then they would regardless if they cheated before or not.

[yuknowthat]

This is somethin that I've heard many ppl say. Do u think it's true? Why or why not?

yes...people can like the seasons change..