Every longterm relationship will deal w/ cheating at some point....

[non dormis]

I slipped through and fell to the dark side.  I am now repenting. I suppose we were on different pages of the story... But I realized something about myself through this ordeal: that I could never love the way I love him.  I could find myself a successful man who could love me... but... I wouldn't/couldn't return the love. If he doesn't return, I was going to go traveling.  Maybe I was seeking freedom after all these years?  That's what happens when you fall so young... You both grow together, only to find out the people you both have become are different.  What do you do? Wait? Keep working?  Lucky for me... he loves so deeply...he forgave me... Working on forgiving myself... working on building a stronger future together for us.

So yes... all relationships will face problems.  How you deal with it shows the depth of commitment and love.

*sigh

Young love tend to have the most problem, though... Because people change and when we find our true selves, we might no longer have the same wishes and dreams.  Or we grow tire and we fear... and we start to wonder... I applaud those who have lasted without going to the dark side. It's a tough and difficult journey... but such is life.

i think this is why it's always good to cheat. cause if they forgive you then you know that it's meant to be but if they don't then you just move on to the next one and do it again.

[freebird]

I almost choked on my saliva.

[non dormis]

I almost choked on my saliva.

trying to commit suicide by drowning on saliva isnt recomended. i think seeking professional help would be much better. you should never kill yourseld over a cheater. its not worth it.

[Calypso]

i think this is why it's always good to cheat. cause if they forgive you then you know that it's meant to be but if they don't then you just move on to the next one and do it again.

WTH? And I thought u were the romantic, loving kinda guy from ur story of u and ur wife.

[Super User]

i think that statement is false. not everyone is a hoe-bag/douchebag cheater.

[non dormis]

WTH? And I thought u were the romantic, loving kinda guy from ur story of u and ur wife.

i was. i told you that she completly changed my life around. i loved her with all my heart and soul until the day she passed.

shes no longer with us now. i just dont feel like i want to try anymore with other women. but im always honest with them and tell them in the beginning that im not looking for anything serious but they always tell me i cheat on them when im sleeping with other women. maybe one day i'll find love again but im not holding my breath.

[Lady_Fallin]

i think this is why it's always good to cheat. cause if they forgive you then you know that it's meant to be but if they don't then you just move on to the next one and do it again.

I don't understand how some people can continue committing such an act... Once is enough a lesson... The person you hurt most is yourself... At least, for me it was. 

[dianahmuas]

This is somethin that I've heard many ppl say. Do u think it's true? Why or why not?

true if you're with someone who has always had wandering eyes...

[non dormis]

I don't understand how some people can continue committing such an act... Once is enough a lesson... The person you hurt most is yourself... At least, for me it was. 

well, you got pretty darn lucky! see, some of us have to continue cheating all our lives so that we may find our one true love who will forgive us cause they know we are the one to be with them and they love us with all their hearts.

we're not as lucky as you. so we just keep having to move on and continue cheating until the day comes when our true love comes to us and forgives us. it's not always easy but it's just how life works. i know you understand it cause you been through it all. wish the rest of us luck. we need it. 

[Lady_Fallin]

well, you got pretty darn lucky! see, some of us have to continue cheating all our lives so that we may find our one true love who will forgive us cause they know we are the one to be with them and they love us with all their hearts.

we're not as lucky as you. so we just keep having to move on and continue cheating until the day comes when our true love comes to us and forgives us. it's not always easy but it's just how life works. i know you understand it cause you been through it all. wish the rest of us luck. we need it.  

I am indeed a very lucky girl... to have such a wonderful man.

However, like I said, it hurts you more in the end.  It is your conscience you must sleep with... For some, it's easy to just forget. For others, it's living hell daily... My thoughts lately have been, "How could you become such a monster? Something so low? So treacherous... so selfish."  And it eats away your pride, your being... your soul.  But there's something to gain from all of this chaos: you learn not to be judgmental, and to have an open mind to all stories. And you learn about love. 

There are many ways to learn the lessons above... I just happen to chose the path that hurt the most. -_-

[non dormis]

I am indeed a very lucky girl

well, i don't think luck exist. it's just an expression people use. you're fortunate cause you're pretty from your genetic makeup. if you were butt ugly you wouldn't had gotten a second chance. so i guess you should thank your parents.

[Lady_Fallin]

well, i don't think luck exist. it's just an expression people use. you're fortunate cause you're pretty from your genetic makeup. if you were butt ugly you wouldn't had gotten a second chance. so i guess you should thank your parents.

 

Looks aren't everything, sir.  I'm butt ugly indeed... butt ugly heart.