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Is a women suppose to NOT call as much...?
« on: January 10, 2012, 02:45:33 AM »
Ok...To you girls out there, is it true that you will not call as much to appear not looking desperate?

What happens if a girl calls too much? For the guys would you dump her or take her for granted because she's too easy....



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Re: Is a women suppose to NOT call as much...?
« Reply #1 on: January 10, 2012, 03:39:48 AM »
Women got way too much ego so they want the guy to call. Plus as a guy you want the power to call anyways so you can talk on your terms. Women don't start calling a lot until they are crazy about you and want to be your gf..



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Re: Is a women suppose to NOT call as much...?
« Reply #2 on: January 10, 2012, 01:17:11 PM »
Women got way too much ego so they want the guy to call. Plus as a guy you want the power to call anyways so you can talk on your terms. Women don't start calling a lot until they are crazy about you and want to be your gf..

lol. I think you pretty much nailed it.

I actually don’t mind calling the guy when I miss him but if it came down to it, I’d still like him to call me….at least then I’ll know he’s up for some talking vs. me just bothering him. What sucks more than when you try to have a nice conversation with him and he’s occupied playing video games or hanging with his buddies.

As much as I enjoy talking, I find it annoying when a guy calls and texts like there is no tomorrow. Even if you like someone, give them some space to breath. You don’t need to know every little thing they are doing.



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Re: Is a women suppose to NOT call as much...?
« Reply #3 on: January 10, 2012, 03:24:20 PM »
how soon should you call after the first date?...

i know this question has been brought back again but everytime it's different. people say right after and don't let it hang too long or else she'll think you have doubts?...

if i don't call back again, i usually just want to stay friends, but if i do call back i want to be more!



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Re: Is a women suppose to NOT call as much...?
« Reply #4 on: January 10, 2012, 05:30:47 PM »
If a girl called too much then they are pretty much desperate... Well some...



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Re: Is a women suppose to NOT call as much...?
« Reply #5 on: January 10, 2012, 05:36:27 PM »
Ok...To you girls out there, is it true that you will not call as much to appear not looking desperate?



It depends on the situation. If it's mutual, then no...but if not, then yes.

how soon should you call after the first date?...

i know this question has been brought back again but everytime it's different. people say right after and don't let it hang too long or else she'll think you have doubts?...

if i don't call back again, i usually just want to stay friends, but if i do call back i want to be more!

I would say, soon...if a guy calls right after, it tells that he shows interest.



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Re: Is a women suppose to NOT call as much...?
« Reply #6 on: January 11, 2012, 02:29:38 PM »
how soon should you call after the first date?...

i know this question has been brought back again but everytime it's different. people say right after and don't let it hang too long or else she'll think you have doubts?...

if i don't call back again, i usually just want to stay friends, but if i do call back i want to be more!

I’d call back within a day’s worth of time if I’m interested in wanting to get to know that person more.  Don’t wait any longer or you might just send unintended wrong messages to them. They always said go after what you want. Who cares is you come off as desperate….as long as you have no regrets, right?

If a girl called too much then they are pretty much desperate... Well some...

What's considered "too much"?

The most I usually do is three times in a given day. Once in the morning to say “Good morning.” Once when I am on break or heading home from work. Once at night time. I can’t help it when I miss someone or just curious as to what nws ua dabtsi lawm xwb. Oh how this makes me miss having someone…..



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Re: Is a women suppose to NOT call as much...?
« Reply #7 on: January 11, 2012, 02:32:28 PM »
Ok...To you girls out there, is it true that you will not call as much to appear not looking desperate?

What happens if a girl calls too much? For the guys would you dump her or take her for granted because she's too easy....

I only call alot if we are like dating for over a year! ;D



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Re: Is a women suppose to NOT call as much...?
« Reply #8 on: January 12, 2012, 01:33:01 AM »
I only call alot if we are like dating for over a year! ;D

Then she never hangs up the fone. Lol jk



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Re: Is a women suppose to NOT call as much...?
« Reply #9 on: January 12, 2012, 02:09:12 AM »
Is it a good thing or bad thing when you talk more than your s/o?

But she still listens... i guess that means she cares to hear what i have to say.



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Re: Is a women suppose to NOT call as much...?
« Reply #10 on: January 12, 2012, 08:07:01 AM »
Is it a good thing or bad thing when you talk more than your s/o?

But she still listens... i guess that means she cares to hear what i have to say.

in every relationship, one will talk more. at first I'm shy but later I'm a talker... :2funny:



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Re: Is a women suppose to NOT call as much...?
« Reply #11 on: January 12, 2012, 08:08:05 AM »
I don't know about others but I LOVE it when girls call me. I think it all comes down to ppls schedule. Some ppl just busier then others and then you work with it.



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Re: Is a women suppose to NOT call as much...?
« Reply #12 on: January 12, 2012, 08:27:06 AM »
Ok...To you girls out there, is it true that you will not call as much to appear not looking desperate?

What happens if a girl calls too much? For the guys would you dump her or take her for granted because she's too easy....

Some girls are not dumb.  They'll call you at the same hour everyday for awhile.  Then one day out of the blue........ no call.  Well, it naturally makes the man think if she lost interest in you.  SO, now the tables are turned, you are hooked on her bait........ now go make her a sandwhich.



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Re: Is a women suppose to NOT call as much...?
« Reply #13 on: January 12, 2012, 11:39:43 AM »
Some girls are not dumb.  They'll call you at the same hour everyday for awhile.  Then one day out of the blue........ no call.  Well, it naturally makes the man think if she lost interest in you.  SO, now the tables are turned, you are hooked on her bait........ now go make her a sandwhich.

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Re: Is a women suppose to NOT call as much...?
« Reply #14 on: January 12, 2012, 04:22:13 PM »
dood, what century do you live in?



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