i got a question..

[Bob_J.D.]

If you have to ask then you're not compatible.


bob

[AOZ]

x2

what if it wasn't her fault for being a divorcee?...

i still wouldn't marry her.  most likely... divorcees are too emotionally unstable and set in their ways.  if i was a never been married guy... i'd go for the never been married girl.... such girls are less opinionated and easier to mold. 

[dianahmuas]

i still wouldn't marry her.  most likely... divorcees are too emotionally unstable and set in their ways.  if i was a never been married guy... i'd go for the never been married girl.... such girls are less opinionated and easier to mold.  

actually, i think divorcee's are better opinionated because they've been through hell and want the 2nd marriage to work out...they strive harder for a better future...as with first marriages, both couples can and will give up easily because the honeymoon stage disappears after a certain time frame and they've never had previous experience that stops them from separating too soon...

i, myself would rather be with a divorcee because i know for a fact that he's been through a lot and would probably want a stronger and serious relationship.. .at least he wouldn't look at life like a joke...

[keng]

None.

[ToxicCum]

more proof of idiots.....

how and where do some of you get the nerve to pass judgement upon a person(s)??

the rule is freakin simple, if you dont like it, move on! if u like it, deal with it and accept it!

Geeeeeeeeeeeee eeeezzzzzzzzZZ ZZZZZZZZZzzzzz

bad decisions in the past or not, aint ur business...her/his fault or not...aint ur business....th ats how it works ladies and gentlemen....i f u gotta problem, dont be wasting their time and move on...dont go passing judgement on them....kuz u aint got no halo on ur head neither....

[nuk-su-kow]

would you marry a hmong girl that been thru a white guy or rather marry a divorce hmong girl with no kid? these are you only two choice.. they both look the same.. key word here is marriage okay not dating.. cause if its dating we will pick both..

these kind of questions intend to illicit negative responses and provoke shallow ideologies. it's this very kind of thinking that plagues our culture. i am embarrassed and appalled to be hmong right now!

[XiFue]

I didn't think marriage was a multiple choice question. 

People need to consider that marriage is a serious life decision, and although I'm sure the OP has a serious inquiry, to find it online in a Hmong Forum is not exactly how you want to tell people how you came to your decision. I wouldn't put it as generalized as the girl-who-dated-the-white-guy or the hmong-divorcee. Marriage calls in alot of favors, money, time, and commitment, and I'm just talking about the actual marriage proceeding. If you're making a decision on two possible candidates, you may want to consider if you're ready for marriage. I would hope marriage isn't a trial-and-error run.

[DivineTreasure]

There are a lot of narrow-minded people on PH.  We are not in the year 2012 people.  Time to grow up!!

[Fresno559]

Wtf ? Well i' m a girl . I got to say , If i were a guy i choose the hmong girl who been thru a white guy ! F that shiet divorce girl ? TRIPPEN !