help me!

[dianahmuas]

ok, will do! what are you doing this weekend?

not sure yet...

[nuk-su-kow]

not sure yet...

we can hang out or something..

[jon_jon]

lol this post cracked me up for some reason. not sure if serious?

true that. thanks!

dang it. I was telling u the truth.

They're not trustful.. women are more deceitful than men and more harmful because theyre easier to persuade with the right methods.

[Bob_J.D.]

If you go gay you won't have any women to deal with and your issues are resolved.


bob

[Justakiss]

Speaking from a woman's perspective:

Your insecurity will drive her AWAY, as far as she can go. Women are TURNED-OFF by insecure men. Even good women who are geniune will sympathize with you, but they will avoid you!

Women (especially Hmong women) enjoy men who have self-esteem, even if he is not as attractive. Women need that security, because, heck, they are already insecure about themselves, but to have to deal with a man's insecurity, forget that! I don't mean that go ahead and play hard to get or be cruel to her, (don't get me wrong, some women respond to that) but give yourself some credit too for making it this far and being able to open your heart to another woman.

I know you are protecting yourself to you don't get hurt again, but with every new relationship, you have to take a chance, because you won't know how strong the relationship can be without sacrificing your heart. Yes, you may get hurt again, but isn't better than not knowing what it could of been?

Stop assuming that they are cheating, women hate that the most, especially when they are NOT cheating. That will only pull you both further apart. Women (good women, that is) like to know that their man trust them to some extent. Trust is the HARDEST thing to build in a relationship, and it may take YEARS to acquire trust in a relationship, but when you do, LIFE with that person is a breeze and a joy! But the again, it can be taken away in just a blink of an eye.

Hope that helps. GOod luck!

[red_velvet]

I want the same thing... a trustworthy man to date and if things are good I want a future with him.
I loath a decieving dude who lies and cheats!


I feel you on what you say, getting hurt, not worth it and no one deserve it.  I wish the other sig would just come out and tell the truth. What's wrong with the truth, yes it hurts but it's better than finding out from friends or social groups or on your own and have the whole thing explode.  Like a few of my friends have mentioned to me, focus on me and good things will come.

[Fresno559]

Duhh' , hello . Every girl are not the same ? Stop judging other girls to your ex . You just got to wait , the perfect one havent come for you yet' . &&&&' Everyone this year been taken & some are getting marry' . Ahaa' your 25 ? Ahaa start a life , with a wife. LOL .

[lovergirl69]

Duhh' , hello . Every girl are not the same ? Stop judging other girls to your ex . You just got to wait , the perfect one havent come for you yet' . &&&&' Everyone this year been taken & some are getting marry' . Ahaa' your 25 ? Ahaa start a life , with a wife. LOL .

what she said.

[nuk-su-kow]

thanks everyone. =)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M6XbW6aHFpY

[Believe_N_Me]

The truth about being single is that single people are always available. So despite how some of you may think it's an old-fashioned idea, it's true. Why should that person wait around for you or turn down other prospects if you're not making it clear that you want something more than just a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship? If you're not ready to be married then stay single, which means be single and stop worrying what that other single person whom you've been courting is up to.

[BuckFuddies2]

i have a tough time trusting women. due to my past relationships, i now get suspicious easily and even the slightest hint of straying will put me in a jealous rage. i feel like i will be forever alone if i don't get passed my trust issues. i'm now 25 and i heard it gets tougher to find single women past that age. how do i get over the hurt and start to develop strong relationships for the long haul?

thank you.

Dude........ don't be soo harsh on yourself.  What you're feeling and thinking is right on the money.  Look at the divorce rate.  Don't be one of those suckers who puts women on a pedestal thinking their lady is a queen and all innocent.  Hmong women are as worse as guys, if not worse, when it comes to straying off course.

There are very.....and I mean, VERY few Hmong women who are strong enough and really committed in making a relationship work without giving in to temptation.  Just take your time.