do you follow your heart or your head?

[Super User]

when it comes to who you date?

[nuk-su-kow]

a little bit of both.

[dogtags3154]

Follow your heart, but keep your head. Or in other words, give all of your heart until that person is also worth givng her your mind. That way, if it doesn't work out, your mind will still be there to help you mvoe on.

[Super User]

what if your heart tells you one thing and your head tells you another?

[nuk-su-kow]

what if your heart tells you one thing and your head tells you another?

i think when the heart and head conflicts, then follow your head.

[Super User]

 

[primetime]

Heart when meeting, head if I wanna stay.

[nuk-su-kow]

can you elaborate on the details so i can give you a better assessment?

[Super User]

in my heart and soul... in my loins and in my gut... i feel he's the one. no one has ever made me feel the way i do when i'm with him. but our beliefs and principals aren't in line. the heart would like to believe that everything will work out but head says there are conflicts that threaten to destroy a lifetime of bliss.

[nuk-su-kow]

in my heart and soul... in my loins and in my gut... i feel he's the one. no one has ever made me feel the way i do when i'm with him. but our beliefs and principals aren't in line. the heart would like to believe that everything will work out but head says there are conflicts that threaten to destroy a lifetime of bliss.

stubbornness can kill a relationship real quick. if i loved somebody and they loved me, i'd compromise a little and hope they do the same in return. if after i did, and they still didn't, then i might leave. don't think for a minute that you can't find someone else who can make you feel the way you do with him. trust me. i've been through it and thought i would never find someone like her again, then i did find someone new and it was even better, and made me realize life goes on. anyway, i hope you two work it out.

[Super User]

do u think its hopeless to be in love with someone's potential rather than the reality?

[nuk-su-kow]

do u think its hopeless to be in love with someone's potential rather than the reality?

definitely. women do this a lot too. they feel the need to help a man reach his potential, or in other words they want to change him. women don't realize he's not going to change! instead, be with someone who you're happy with- flaws and all.

[Super User]

  guilty!

[boO]

but our beliefs and principals aren't in line. the heart would like to believe that everything will work out but head says there are conflicts that threaten to destroy a lifetime of bliss.

It's not what you argue about but it's how you resolve the situation. How long have you been with your partner if you do not mind me asking?

[Super User]

5 years. we've got pending issues but we've also worked through a lot of issues. usually its a compromise.