The Handsome Prince

[Lan Xang]

Why is it that the handsome prince turns back into a frog with women? Why is it that never matter what she turns into but it does when the guys "change"?

This is not about me, just a question I would like to know why do women always blame the men for changing and they think they haven't.

[Sweet_Tears]

Why is it that the handsome prince turns back into a frog with women? Why is it that never matter what she turns into but it does when the guys "change"?

This is not about me, just a question I would like to know why do women always blame the men for changing and they think they haven't.

It's funny because majority of the men would probably agree that WOMEN SHOULD not change the way they look (body wise). But it's okay for men to get beer belly and bum looking. I don't know.. I guess if one do not look so good, the other one has to compensate for it. For me personally, it doesn't really matter... just as long as you are still the person that I love.. I don't care if you have a little beer belly or gained some weights. I know that with time, people change.

[Lady_Fallin]

People change... always... So sometimes they may not be compatible anymore... And you just end up wanting different things in life.

[Lan Xang]

It's funny because majority of the men would probably agree that WOMEN SHOULD not change the way they look (body wise). But it's okay for men to get beer belly and bum looking. I don't know.. I guess if one do not look so good, the other one has to compensate for it. For me personally, it doesn't really matter... just as long as you are still the person that I love.. I don't care if you have a little beer belly or gained some weights. I know that with time, people change.

I am the same way, but if I see that a person neglect themselves physically I do try to encourage them to work out a bit. Looks matter no matter what age we are 

[Lan Xang]

People change... always... So sometimes they may not be compatible anymore... And you just end up wanting different things in life.

This is true, this is what happen when we don't look deep inside of us and only trying to find happiness externally.

[Believe_N_Me]

Yeah, I'm still racking my brain over why there are women out there who are foolish to believe that what a man does during courtship is his true character. I've noticed that people, in general, who like to receive words of affirmation and gifts turn out most disappointed in their relationships. They're so easily fooled - either that or too high maintenance to please. It's obvious that during courtship, we say and do things to keep the relationship moving along as well as keep the other person interested. People should start looking at what is real and stop wagering everything on the fluff. 

[couchpotato]

Why is it that the handsome prince turns back into a frog with women? Why is it that never matter what she turns into but it does when the guys "change"?

This is not about me, just a question I would like to know why do women always blame the men for changing and they think they haven't.

I think it goes both ways. Often times it is easier to see the people around you change, but not yourself.

Everyone changes over time, for better or for worse.

[Lan Xang]

Yeah, I'm still racking my brain over why there are women out there who are foolish to believe that what a man does during courtship is his true character. I've noticed that people, in general, who like to receive words of affirmation and gifts turn out most disappointed in their relationships. They're so easily fooled - either that or too high maintenance to please. It's obvious that during courtship, we say and do things to keep the relationship moving along as well as keep the other person interested. People should start looking at what is real and stop wagering everything on the fluff. 

True, some people are easily fool and are high maintenance. But to say or implying that all men are not who they are during courtship is wrong. There are men out there, geniune men who are who they are. Honest good men.

[Lan Xang]

I think it goes both ways. Often times it is easier to see the people around you change, but not yourself.

Everyone changes over time, for better or for worse.

Change is a must for us all. But some can't accept the change. Changes comes in all form, it could be physically and mentally. But for some people they have this ideal of one another and it's hard for them to accept change that happens during the course of our lives.

[couchpotato]

Change is a must for us all. But some can't accept the change. Changes comes in all form, it could be physically and mentally. But for some people they have this ideal of one another and it's hard for them to accept change that happens during the course of our lives.

Change can be difficult, especially for creatures of habit.

However, if a person cannot accept it, they cannot move forward. If you come to this point in a relationship, it's time to go your separate ways.

As for people having an ideal of another person, I think that is another topic altogether. When you hear about or meet a person for the first time, you create this idea of what this person is like. Whether or not they are like that in actuality is a different matter. Sometimes your ideal of them is wrong. When it shatters, the person has not changed. Your perception of them has.

[Lan Xang]

Very good point, so be wise from the beginning. Date longer and make sure the prince does not turned into a frog before making that commitment

[couchpotato]

Very good point, so be wise from the beginning. Date longer and make sure the prince does not turned into a frog before making that commitment

Umm. lol.

Maybe the prince should make sure he isn't hooking up with a witch instead. 

[Lan Xang]

The witch are very good at deceiving people lol

[couchpotato]

The witch are very good at deceiving people lol

But the prince can be pretty dumb sometimes. lol

The witch rarely deceives the princess. 

[Lan Xang]

The prince only look dumb because he is too charming lol

The princess isn't anything like the queen