Guys will think just because

[lifemystery]

they spend money, such as paying for the date or lavish her with gifts, if she's willing to accept it, they will consider that she finds him as a thought full caring person; which is not the case. She wants to accept it because she doesn't want him to feel bad.

[C@$H]

we buy things for the woman with the intent to make her happy...upon accepting, shows acceptance of our friendship..nu rture that gift and it shows the love she has for you...wearing it, she's yours.

[Sentinel_Li]

Some with understanding will think you are a wonderful man, others will think they are so special and you are an obligate slave born to make her happy.

[Jelicas]

they spend money, such as paying for the date or lavish her with gifts, if she's willing to accept it, they will consider that she finds him as a thought full caring person; which is not the case. She wants to accept it because she doesn't want him to feel bad.

Umm...not really. I don't expect any guy to pay for me or lavish me with gifts. I accept gifts not because I don't want him to feel bad...I accept it because I consider it as a thoughtful gesture. If a person takes the time to go out and buy you something they think you might like...that's considered thoughtful...u nless he's just trying to find a way to get in your pants. A caring person on the other hand has nothing to do with paying or gifts...it comes from the heart...such as taking care of her when she's sick. I agree with Sentinel_Li though, there are some that will take advantage of it...no matter what the case is.

[parana]

they spend money, such as paying for the date or lavish her with gifts, if she's willing to accept it, they will consider that she finds him as a thought full caring person; which is not the case. She wants to accept it because she doesn't want him to feel bad.

i don't buy her gifts unless she lets me tap it.  Period  !

[aHMONGrican guy]

i don't buy her gifts unless she lets me tap it.  Period  !

[aman x]

they spend money, such as paying for the date or lavish her with gifts, if she's willing to accept it, they will consider that she finds him as a thought full caring person; which is not the case. She wants to accept it because she doesn't want him to feel bad.

what a misleading yet closed mind?  this chick either has never been hugged as a child or too much.  but the again, she is a ph regular.

have you ever thought he gives because it makes him happy, regardless.

[Peachy Fish]

they spend money, such as paying for the date or lavish her with gifts, if she's willing to accept it, they will consider that she finds him as a thought full caring person; which is not the case. She wants to accept it because she doesn't want him to feel bad.

I've met quite a few guys like this before. Also, when she doesn't reciprocate the attention they desire, they call her a gold-digger. 

what a misleading yet closed mind?  this chick either has never been hugged as a child or too much.  but the again, she is a ph regular.

have you ever thought he gives because it makes him happy, regardless.

I agree w/this too. I've met some guys that just gives b/c they want to.

[ToxicCum]

they spend money, such as paying for the date or lavish her with gifts, if she's willing to accept it, they will consider that she finds him as a thought full caring person; which is not the case. She wants to accept it because she doesn't want him to feel bad.

pretty accurate to a certain degree....

but yet again, this is a two way street....

whats there to say about a girl who does accept it, knowing he will take it the wrong way....maybe accepting something that shouldnt be is even worse then the offer itself.....a month down the road, the guy finds out the truth that she was just leading him on.....so she is the person who produced that bad feelings.....n eed i say more???

[NraugLaus]

 If any girl tells you that she doesn't want anything for Valentine's day, that biatch she's lying@:2funny: 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VqiyIC_VlrQ

[lifemystery]

If any girl tells you that she doesn't want anything for Valentine's day, that biatch she's lying@:2funny: 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VqiyIC_VlrQ

Haven't seen that video for awhile.

[No regret]

if you don't like him, why would you accept anything from him--gold digger?

[YAX]

they spend money, such as paying for the date or lavish her with gifts, if she's willing to accept it, they will consider that she finds him as a thought full caring person; which is not the case. She wants to accept it because she doesn't want him to feel bad.

for some guys... those are the candy trail left to lure her into his den where he can trap her.