1. Combative relationship does not work.
2. When you get back with an ex after a long period of time, your curious mind may want to know how many partners she had while you were separated. This is an unfair question because what she does during the break has nothing to do with you. She is legally and morally right in that.
3. It is hard enough to get back with an ex but to do so, one must give up the past to start the new. What she does during the breaks do not count. Her number might be zero but if she has a lying tongue or a combative type of a person in a relationship, expect her to try to top your numbers just because......