Do you girls find this mean and evil from a guy?

[No regret]

If you really like a guy, he dates you for a long time, gets all he wanted from you then dump you and get married to somebody else?

Or is it ok, as long as you got some from him too?

[couchpotato]

If you really like a guy, he dates you for a long time, gets all he wanted from you then dump you and get married to somebody else?

Or is it ok, as long as you got some from him too?

Depends on what he got from you, and what you got from him.

If the both of you saw the relationship for what it is, it shouldn't really matter.

[Lan Xang]

I am sure there were signs that he was pulling away.

[primetime]

Isn't that how all relationships are if they don't end up getting married? Hell, marriage is like that too if they end up getting divorced.

[Sweet_Tears]

You used and abused eachother.

[Believe_N_Me]

Any woman in that situation is lying to herself if she says that she didn't see all the signs.

[aHMONGrican guy]

Isn't that how all relationships are if they don't end up getting married? Hell, marriage is like that too if they end up getting divorced.

[Super User]

thats the risk you take in being with someone. at the end of the day, if he decides that you're not the one for him then you're not the one for him.

[Sweet_Tears]

thats the risk you take in being with something. at the end of the day, if he decides that you're not the one for him then you're not the one for him.

I totally agree. When you walk into a relationship, you never know what you're going to get out of it. You expect the best but if it doesn't happen, just walk away happy.

[No regret]

thats the risk you take in being with someone. at the end of the day, if he decides that you're not the one for him then you're not the one for him.

I totally agree. When you walk into a relationship, you never know what you're going to get out of it. You expect the best but if it doesn't happen, just walk away happy.

There isn't really a risk, if the girl plays it right he'll end up marrying her.  What i meant is she has to know to make him see and believe that she is the one for him. Play it right, don't make him feel like, ok I've had enough of her I think I'm gonna move on, make him feel like you are the one cus other girls aren't better than you.

[DeceiversChick]

If you really like a guy, he dates you for a long time, gets all he wanted from you then dump you and get married to somebody else?

Or is it ok, as long as you got some from him too?

Yea that's pretty mean and evil. However I'm sure he didn't love her for a while and was not able to tell her. He strung her a long til he could finally dump her and move onto the next girl.

[Lady_Fallin]

No. Life goes on.

[54321]

Yea that's pretty mean and evil. However I'm sure he didn't love her for a while and was not able to tell her. He strung her a long til he could finally dump her and move onto the next girl.

Even as a guy, I also find that mean and evil too.  You gotta a have a cold heart to be able to do that to somebody, I say if you don't want to be with that person, you shouldn't have a relationship with her.

I have a cousin he's in a late 30's, he dated this much older girl (around 30) for a good while.  She was very good and hopeful of having a future with him but in the end he decided she was a bit too old for him, so he went a got married to this 21 year old from another state.

[AOZ]

that is evil.  too bad some girls don't learn from other girls experiences. 

it's how men are... they take what they can from you until they meet the one.  c'mon ladies... it's all common sense...it doesn't take a man 5+ years to know if he'll marry you or not.  the instant he meets you.. he already knows if you are for using or for keeping. 

[parana]

If you really like a guy, he dates you for a long time, gets all he wanted from you then dump you and get married to somebody else?

Or is it ok, as long as you got some from him too?

OMG!!!!!  That's mean.