am i being too mean? - serious inquiry only

[aHMONGrican guy]

The quickest way to get a guy off of you.. Hook him up with someone better than you.. He'll forgot about you in no time! 

[54321]

that's so korean drama!
and people thought my true stories were crazzzzzy.

 


know your boundaries, if you guys didn't get too close in the first place this wouldn't have happen...maybe u guys got a little too friendly with each other.  I assumed both of you are like so kool with each other everytime you guys run into each other before this happen.  He didn't just decided he wanted to date you, you must gave him a comfort zone first before all this happened.

[XiFue]

In my opinion he needs to accept some responsibility in the matter. To say you are the only one being "mean" is not right. If he really cared for you, he would've accepted your initial response and not continue to try and court you despite your wishes. He's also your in-law now, and that in itself should be a wake up call for him. Sometimes people want to live the dramas they see, whether they realize it or not.

[parana]

I know that with persistency, he will get in your undie.  WTF am I saying this?



Time will tell you why I say what I say .

[aHMONGrican guy]

know your boundaries, if you guys didn't get too close in the first place this wouldn't have happen...maybe u guys got a little too friendly with each other.  I assumed both of you are like so kool with each other everytime you guys run into each other before this happen.  He didn't just decided he wanted to date you, you must gave him a comfort zone first before all this happened.

Very true! A guy can't just fall for a girl overnight. Too much close interaction over time can spark attraction.

[non dormis]

lol. this thread keeps getting funnier

[54321]

the thing is, if we sense somebody has a thing for us but we won't feel the same way then it's best we keep our distance from them early on so their feelings don't get stronger for us.

[Lady_Fallin]

He's testing your feelings.. if you add him again, he will think he has a chance and pursue you again.

*sigh.

You're not being mean. You are doing what is best for yourself and him.  Good luck.

[megahmong]

Yeah i say be mean too... Dont be nice to me. Distance, keep it that way. The more i see you, the nicer you are to me the more attached i become.

[NraugLaus]

My brother-in-law really likes me and wants to date me. 

Autumn, can you post a picture of yourself and so I can see why your brother in law is in heat.