Where can I find other Singles with Careers?

[Lan Xang]

Good men are taken? 

[C@$H]

I narrowed it down to 48 states didn't I?

you must not want to be found or not looking at the moment..Thanks though, however let me know when you do!  

how come no professional Hmong man in here has answered the call and asked hubble on a date? this is really sad. 11 pages and still no date.

She did not present herself as advised....tox ic offered?!?!

[mi_mai]

Why is it that you as a 20 yr old girl don't even want a 30?  And what exception would be exceptional in your opinion?


What is it so bad about a Hmong guy with decent career and ready to settle down and build a family in their 30 that you don't even want?

By the way, you do realize that even a 20 yrs old marrying a 30 yr old guy, after you give birth to average number of 4 children, you look just as old or older depending on how much your body can take the damage.

Do keep in mind that after you give birth to a few kids, you will actually look order than your husband if you guys are same age.

Thank you for your opinion.
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The way a person looks at a certain age doesn’t matter, well at least not to me. It’s about the mentality of a person at a certain age.

Why do guys like younger girls? You said that older guys aim at the younger girls because the 27+ women have baggage, but do you honestly think this is the reason why guys aim at a younger population?
I think older single guys WANT the young girls, when in fact they NEED the older women.
For an older guy to not want older women due to baggage is just an excuse. For every woman that has baggage, there is a man that also has baggage – it works both ways.
Guys want those girls that are young, ripe, and who bend to their desires. I find that as girls get older, the more independent they become and this is due to life experiences and knowing what they want in life.
An older guy can wine and dine a younger girl and he wins her over. An older guy that wants to win an older girl over needs to wine and dine her and then develop a relationship with her on top of that. Older women are more difficult to please and win over just because we’ve experienced and we know what we want. A few flowers and a poem wont easily catch us now. Its easier to win over younger girls so older guys aren’t even trying with us older girls…

I do want a guy around my age or older, but I know that guys around my age are looking for someone younger – hot, fresh, easier to please…. or at least they appear that way.
I want that older guy that has a career, wants to settle down, wants a wifey – but he just doesn’t want me   *cries*
The matter of the fact is that we “older” girls in our mid-late 20’s DO WANT a guy our age or a bit older (no more than 5-10 yrs older), but these guys aren’t looking for us because they are setting their standards on these young girls so they really are missing what’s good…   

[ev]

you must not want to be found or not looking at the moment..Thanks though, however let me know when you do!  

I guess you could say I'm "passively" looking. I'm open to inquiries. But my momma always taught me not to talk to strangers.

[non dormis]

geeshes people... the simple science of why older men look for younger women has been embedded in our innate self for centuries on when man was building wheels out of rocks.

older men look for young women to bear child.. gotta get some help with them rice fields.
women look for older men for security.

these days the options have widen. but it's still the same in many senses.

now can someone please help hubble find a career orientated man. one of those buff firefighters or something so she'll be super happy.

[tsiehta_goy_vuk]

Many of you made very good points.  They are all valid points.  I guess I no longer look down on Hmong guys going to Laos for younger Hmong girls.  I still despised the old guys who go there to play around though.

Anyway, as for myself, i made effort to go to Hmong new years, the big ones like MN and Cali to find decent aged girls.  So far, not much luck but I won't give up.

 

Good luck to ALL.

[freebird]

Dear hubbahubba, I'll keep it short. You'll meet him one day.... online.

[AOZ]

wow... this thread still going?

hehehe.

i feel bad for u single ppl.  hehehe no wonder u all are still single!!  lol.  u all need to relax and take it easy and tear down your wall of pride and expectations.. . then and only then will u meet  potentials.  

be HUMBLE!!  

[freebird]

We cant be humble, aoz. The truth is, we're not that great.

[AOZ]

We cant be humble, aoz. The truth is, we're not that great.

all more reason to be humble...

don't let a lousy mouth/personality ruin your chances of landing a  partner.   

[aman x]

 
An older guy that wants to win an older girl over needs to wine and dine her and then develop a relationship with her on top of that. Older women are more difficult to please and win over just because we’ve experienced and we know what we want. A few flowers and a poem wont easily catch us now. Its easier to win over younger girls so older guys aren’t even trying with us older girls…

It's a human nature to want to stay younger and surrounded by youth. 

The mature ladies are more approachable.  Their initial focus is not so much on the appearance but rather on the characteristic s.  And that does help, especially when it comes to initiating or having a conversation.  The possibility of developing a relationship is naturally based on chemistry - that's always nice.

I've witness older women to be more vulnerable than the younger ones. 

The younger ones were eager to what we have to offer.  They often look at the world through our eyes.  The older ones were humbling to what we have to say.  They look for not just a provider but a leader. 

Everyone is searching for that special someone differently based where they are in life.  Bottom line, we all want the same thing.  And that is 'love'.

Now should it mattered if a 50 years old man was to marry to a 18 years old woman?  Yes, it would look awkward for the public eyes.  Though I wouldn't give a rat-ass if they love each others.

[primetime]

I guess you could say I'm "passively" looking. I'm open to inquiries. But my momma always taught me not to talk to strangers.

[aHMONGrican guy]

how come no professional Hmong man in here has answered the call and asked hubble on a date? this is really sad. 11 pages and still no date.

It's because she didn't follow PH #1 rule if she want guys to holler.. No pic, no care! 

[freeone]

how come no professional Hmong man in here has answered the call and asked hubble on a date? this is really sad. 11 pages and still no date.

1. She lives in the mountains. No hmong guy born in the good ol U.S. of A is experienced enough to climb mountains like our ancestors.

2. Like stated, no pic, no care. Believe it or not, a pictures says a thousand words. 

[freeone]

 Why is it that you as a 20 yr old girl don't even want a 30?  And what exception would be exceptional in your opinion?


What is it so bad about a Hmong guy with decent career and ready to settle down and build a family in their 30 that you don't even want?

By the way, you do realize that even a 20 yrs old marrying a 30 yr old guy, after you give birth to average number of 4 children, you look just as old or older depending on how much your body can take the damage.

Do keep in mind that after you give birth to a few kids, you will actually look order than your husband if you guys are same age.

Thank you for your opinion.



The way a person looks at a certain age doesn’t matter, well at least not to me. It’s about the mentality of a person at a certain age.

Why do guys like younger girls? You said that older guys aim at the younger girls because the 27+ women have baggage, but do you honestly think this is the reason why guys aim at a younger population?
I think older single guys WANT the young girls, when in fact they NEED the older women.
For an older guy to not want older women due to baggage is just an excuse. For every woman that has baggage, there is a man that also has baggage – it works both ways.
Guys want those girls that are young, ripe, and who bend to their desires. I find that as girls get older, the more independent they become and this is due to life experiences and knowing what they want in life.
An older guy can wine and dine a younger girl and he wins her over. An older guy that wants to win an older girl over needs to wine and dine her and then develop a relationship with her on top of that. Older women are more difficult to please and win over just because we’ve experienced and we know what we want. A few flowers and a poem wont easily catch us now. Its easier to win over younger girls so older guys aren’t even trying with us older girls…

I do want a guy around my age or older, but I know that guys around my age are looking for someone younger – hot, fresh, easier to please…. or at least they appear that way.
I want that older guy that has a career, wants to settle down, wants a wifey – but he just doesn’t want me   *cries*
The matter of the fact is that we “older” girls in our mid-late 20’s DO WANT a guy our age or a bit older (no more than 5-10 yrs older), but these guys aren’t looking for us because they are setting their standards on these young girls so they really are missing what’s good…   

mi_mai,

Post pics.