Regretting pursuing someone

[jiggles]

Have you ever regretted pursuing someone? Say there were some signs or indications that he/she just wasnt that into you but you kept pursuing them anyway and ended up together married or deep in a relationship only to realize he/she was never completely serious bout you? And now you think i shouldve stopped at the signs.

Which brings me to the next question ..can u be serious about someone and still have your options opened? Or is it if your serious then there is no other options?

[Sweet_Tears]

If you are committed in a relationship, why do you still keep your option open? Aren't you suppose to be devoted to that person only until you both are no longer a pair?

I do not regret being with anyone even if it doesn't go well at the end. I take it as a experience and move on.

[nuk-su-kow]

Have you ever regretted pursuing someone? Say there were some signs or indications that he/she just wasnt that into you but you kept pursuing them anyway and ended up together married or deep in a relationship only to realize he/she was never completely serious bout you? And now you think i shouldve stopped at the signs.

Which brings me to the next question ..can u be serious about someone and still have your options opened? Or is it if your serious then there is no other options?

Nope, no point in regretting because that's life. That's the risk we all take for a shot at love. Although I think it's weird and stupid for someone to be married/long-term and not be serious about the other person... but that's just me.

[Sweet_Tears]

Nope, no point in regretting because that's life. That's the risk we all take for a shot at love. Although I think it's weird and stupid for someone to be married/long-term and not be serious about the other person... but that's just me.

It is a sad love story. I would never subject myself to loving someone if they did not feel the same way and how the heck do you live with someone that you don't even love. I know love is strange but to not be loved by someone is not so great.

[nuk-su-kow]

It is a sad love story. I would never subject myself to loving someone if they did not feel the same way and how the heck do you live with someone that you don't even love. I know love is strange but to not be loved by someone is not so great.

Yep gotta love yourself first.

[parana]

WTF!!...my life is filled with regrets.  

[Sweet_Tears]

Yep gotta love yourself first.

Very true.. you gotta love yourself b4 u can love someone. I'm a very dedicated lover and I fall hard so it's gotta be with someone that I want to be with and he's gotta want to be with me as well.

[primetime]

I have no kids running around so everyones been a nice learning experience.

[DeceiversChick]

Have you ever regretted pursuing someone? Say there were some signs or indications that he/she just wasnt that into you but you kept pursuing them anyway and ended up together married or deep in a relationship only to realize he/she was never completely serious bout you? And now you think i shouldve stopped at the signs.

Which brings me to the next question ..can u be serious about someone and still have your options opened? Or is it if your serious then there is no other options?

I have never pursued anyone therefore I do not have any regrets. 

[Jelicas]

I have never pursued anyone therefore I do not have any regrets. 

 ...I'm with you on that.

[mi_mai]

Those people are usually called "swingers"

[Christa]

No one can predict the outcome of a relationship. Once you dive in, you hope for the best. If things don't work out, it's not the end of the world.

On your second question. If you're in an exclusive relationship, you shouldn't be keeping your options opened. You should be focusing on how to make the relationship work rather than how to find a new relationship.

[yuknowthat]

if there weren't any kids involve ...i have never regret about it..lol so far..

[54321]

Have you ever regretted pursuing someone? Say there were some signs or indications that he/she just wasnt that into you but you kept pursuing them anyway and ended up together married or deep in a relationship only to realize he/she was never completely serious bout you? And now you think i shouldve stopped at the signs.

Which brings me to the next question ..can u be serious about someone and still have your options opened? Or is it if your serious then there is no other options?

Options open=hoe 

[megahmong]

is it still a mistake in pursuing someone you really like?

if they say things like:

can i ask you something?
i like you, do you like me?
why do you like me?
would you marry me?
i like you, but i just don't think i would work out.
can i tell you a secret? (if you told me your secret would it be a secret anymore??)
will you take me home with you tonight?
i like you, but there is another person i like too.
you are the first one i told this to.
why do you look at me like that?
(crying through the phone), are you busy?
why do you keep trying?

what are the signs cause i really don't know, how to react?