how do you compliment others?

[yubnag]

how much more gentle does she need things to be? i thought women were strong willed. what kind of waman would she be if every little thing bugged her. mind you, it wasnt like i said she was fat and disquating or ulgy. remember this was a compliment i was giving.

Very gentle. 

I think it's just good manners when you are considerate, can you not be?

Besides, who knew that comparing one pair of fat cheeks to another pair of fat cheeks is complimentary? What if she doesn't even know how chubby Celcelia Cheung's cheeks looked like in the 80's? I sure didn't! I'd be insulted, especially that the name Ceilcelia Cheung doesn't even ring a bell!  And if you brought up that movie, "Fly Me To Polaris", it still wouldn't ring a bell 'cause her whining character annoyed me and I couldn't make this movie one of my favorites!

I know you have good intentions, just bad operation! 

[Lady_Fallin]

My compliments do not come off as compliments... but more like facts about the person.

[yubnag]

My compliments do not come off as compliments... but more like facts about the person.

 

That's either bad or good.

[YAX]

how bout:  Nice legs!  What time they open?

[non dormis]

My compliments do not come off as compliments... but more like facts about the person.

give us an example. compliment me with your facts please. thanks in advance.

[non dormis]

how bout:  Nice legs!  What time they open?

please provide proof that this works. if so i will use it one day. thanks in advance

[Believe_N_Me]

That's a chubby Maggie Cheung?

[AF-Wife]

I told him he looked sexy lifting weights.   

[non dormis]

That's a chubby Maggie Cheung?

no.
i said she looked like a chubby Maggie.

[AF-Wife]

no.
i said she looked like a chubby Maggie.

no girl likes to be call chubby even if you are trying to be nice..

I wouldn't want someone to say that I look like a chubby version of the hottest girl on the planet!

[non dormis]

no girl likes to be call chubby even if you are trying to be nice..

I wouldn't want someone to say that I look like a chubby version of the hottest girl on the planet!

but that's only because you're pregnant and you're super sensitive right now.

only strong willed women with confidence can handle those kinds of compliments because they understand that compliments comes in all shapes and forms and there is no need to get bent up on something that's supposed to be nice and meaningful.

[peas_n_queues]

^ sorry calling someone chubby has never been nice in my book

[Believe_N_Me]

^ sorry calling someone chubby has never been nice in my book

Even to babies?

[non dormis]

^ sorry calling someone chubby has never been nice in my book

but maybe that's because you have been brainwashed by beauty magazines and photoshop makeup that tells you what beautiful is supposed to look like... because back when long ago full figured women were the art of the centuries but now women have been lied to that looking like a starving African woman is what beautiful is so you women believe in the lies and deceit and lock yourself in a mental prison buying beauty products and starving yourselves when you should be loving yourself.   

[peas_n_queues]

^ Perhaps it is you that has been brainwashed.  Please don't put words in my mouth.  I simply stated that calling someone chubby is not nice.  Now if you want to talk about whether chubby people are beautiful ... start another thread.