40 year old plus with 20 yr old wife...

[jon_jon]

I have a cousin who went overseas and bought himself a young wife from Laos/Thailand. We used to hangout but not much, just eating out, and going to the park to play ball. He's older than me by a decade and a half now; almost two decades... 

His wife is really pretty and the first time I saw her and them together, I think she liked me because after I was done talking with him we went on our own separate ways and when I looked back at them.... Guess who was looking back.....

She turned around and glanced back!

My cousin hasn't hung out with me in awhile now because of his new found love. Do I still call him up? Or shall I just let them be knowing the cousin's wife wants to get with me...

He's never been married before and that is his first wife.

[tsiehta_goy_vuk]

I have a cousin who went overseas and bought himself a young wife from Laos/Thailand. We used to hangout but not much, just eating out, and going to the park to play ball. He's older than me by a decade and a half now; almost two decades... 

His wife is really pretty and the first time I saw her and them together, I think she liked me because after I was done talking with him we went on our own separate ways and when I looked back at them.... Guess who was looking back.....

She turned around and glanced back!

My cousin hasn't hung out with me in awhile now because of his new found love. Do I still call him up? Or shall I just let them be knowing the cousin's wife wants to get with me...

He's never been married before and that is his first wife.

When he wants to, he will call you up.  Let him live a little.  No one knows how long they will last, let him enjoy his hard earn money/wife.   

[jiggles]

Post pictures of that wife and I'll tell you if you should call "him" up or not.

[jon_jon]

When he wants to, he will call you up.  Let him live a little.  No one knows how long they will last, let him enjoy his hard earn money/wife.   

I'm just really dumb-founded...

because now I feel awkward being with my cousin and her at the same time. I still have to call her niam tib... but yet she's so much younger than me as well.

[AOZ]

u should stay away from him since u are sexually attracted her.  another man's wife is not worth your life.  

if you desire.. there are plenty of 20+ year old girls back there waiting for you as well.  all as beautiful.  

[jon_jon]

u should stay away from him since u are sexually attracted her.  another man's wife is not worth your life.  

if you desire.. there are plenty of 20+ year old girls back there waiting for you as well.  all as beautiful.  

i'm going to stay far away!

[YAX]

Maybe he doesn't want to hang around with you because he knows you want his wife.  

[Shade]

There are plenty of young fawns around.  Don't get caught up in a tangle with relatives/friends.  That would bring lots of unwanted emotional, stressful issues.

[No regret]

u should stay away from him since u are sexually attracted her.  another man's wife is not worth your life.  

if you desire.. there are plenty of 20+ year old girls back there waiting for you as well.  all as beautiful.  

Yes, the devil in you is tempting you don't fall prey to it, don't even think about it!

  Have some love and respect for cuz, he went through  all that to get his wife, you should support and try to help him make his marriage work, instead of thinking about getting into his wife's pants.  A pussy is NOT worth all the bad consequences involved...the re's many other pussies out there to pick on, not your cousin's wife.

[XiFue]

If you really respect your cousin then you willstay away, treat her as a sister and make sure she realizes that if it becomes unclear. It's not worth ruining your cousin's life and tarnishing your reputation as well as your family reputation if you decide to do otherwise. It may be that she "glances" at other men as well, but at least it won't be you who does the deed.

It's not cheap to bring a wife over to the states, and most of us know what's involved in traditional Hmong marriages so there's alot of sacrifice and effort that feels thrown out when adultery is committed in any marriage. I've seen plenty of attractive wives of relatives, but that's all I register in my head: she's pretty, he's lucky, hope the best for them.

[No regret]

Most of these girls are sick and dirty in the mind, they see a younger man than their husband and they start itching inside.  Don't fall prey to them either, unless you want trouble.  My point is what two person committing adultry/affair doesn't get into trouble eventually?  They all do.

[AOZ]

 


what most men fail to see is that by the time a girl over there reaches 20+... it says alot about her (well most anyways) and where she's been.

she's been tossed around by many men from US and overseas who have been there and done that... so she is way more experienced than most girls/guys here in the US... most of the men who left footprints on/in her are OGs over 50.  so don't be too quick to be envious of any man's young wife.  for all you know.. she left a few kids back in her country. 

[jon_jon]

Maybe he doesn't want to hang around with you because he knows you want his wife.  

his wife wants me... lols

but like these guys said, she's probably checking out a lot of other US guys since she's been in the states. it's all new to her so she's absorbing the atmosphere and the people. the only thing that keeps her tied down is that she's married...

i'm sure he puts her on lock-down away from a lot of folks.

If you really respect your cousin then you willstay away, treat her as a sister and make sure she realizes that if it becomes unclear. It's not worth ruining your cousin's life and tarnishing your reputation as well as your family reputation if you decide to do otherwise. It may be that she "glances" at other men as well, but at least it won't be you who does the deed.

It's not cheap to bring a wife over to the states, and most of us know what's involved in traditional Hmong marriages so there's alot of sacrifice and effort that feels thrown out when adultery is committed in any marriage. I've seen plenty of attractive wives of relatives, but that's all I register in my head: she's pretty, he's lucky, hope the best for them.

i know he's been looking for the longest time but he's patient and i don't want to be like him either, wait until i'm close to nearly 50 to get hitched.

i treat her as a sister-in-law... and staying far far far away!!!!!

Most of these girls are sick and dirty in the mind, they see a younger man than their husband and they start itching inside.  Don't fall prey to them either, unless you want trouble.  My point is what two person committing adultry/affair doesn't get into trouble eventually?  They all do.

it's going to be difficult seeing her during family functions.

i've got to put a mental block on her.

[jon_jon]

what most men fail to see is that by the time a girl over there reaches 20+... it says alot about her (well most anyways) and where she's been.

she's been tossed around by many men from US and overseas who have been there and done that... so she is way more experienced than most girls/guys here in the US... most of the men who left footprints on/in her are OGs over 50.  so don't be too quick to be envious of any man's young wife.  for all you know.. she left a few kids back in her country. 

most of the OG's go after the promiscuous ones that are easy. Some of them even go after the ones that have been divorced and are flown back to Asia...lol

but my cousin deserves the best. he was a good-looking guy back then, most girls adored him.

whether she's virgin or not, most can be said about girls here in the US as well.

[jon_jon]

Post pictures of that wife and I'll tell you if you should call "him" up or not.

why would i have pictures of his wife?