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Offline lifemystery

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I hear this all the time. What's the point of people telling
« on: February 04, 2012, 02:38:36 AM »
that they love each other then later on breaking up? It seems the word love is worthless there. Seriously I think people should really consider what they say, not just because they're feeling it at the moment but into the future, & mean what they say. What do you think?



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Re: I hear this all the time. What's the point of people telling
« Reply #1 on: February 04, 2012, 04:06:53 AM »
You can still love a person but not be with them.



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Re: I hear this all the time. What's the point of people telling
« Reply #2 on: February 04, 2012, 05:11:49 AM »
You can still love a person but not be with them.

I agree.  Sheit happens.



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Re: I hear this all the time. What's the point of people telling
« Reply #3 on: February 04, 2012, 09:02:52 AM »
Love is just a saying, actions speak louder than words.

By the way....

Love is never enough in any relationship. There's also got to be Trust and Respect inorder for love to blossom and strengthen a relationship.

So, simply telling someone "I Love You" doesn't mean anything, any smart woman or man would know that.



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Re: I hear this all the time. What's the point of people telling
« Reply #4 on: February 04, 2012, 10:17:43 AM »
I should of mention it earlier. I'm talking about ex wise here. You still love your ex husband/wife or gf/bf even if they pull a scandalous act?



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Re: I hear this all the time. What's the point of people telling
« Reply #5 on: February 04, 2012, 10:46:47 AM »
I should of mention it earlier. I'm talking about ex wise here. You still love your ex husband/wife or gf/bf even if they pull a scandalous act?

Define scandalous act?

Because something scandalous like going to the club dancing up on girls VS. having sex with someone is TWO TOTALLY different acts.



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Re: I hear this all the time. What's the point of people telling
« Reply #6 on: February 04, 2012, 10:57:38 AM »
What do we expect from a dumb down society?

the phrase "I LOVE YOU" has been very much diluted, just like the phrase "thank you".  When one says thank you to someone, do you think they really mean it other than trying to be be socially appropriate :2funny: :2funny:



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Re: I hear this all the time. What's the point of people telling
« Reply #7 on: February 04, 2012, 11:03:42 AM »
I should of mention it earlier. I'm talking about ex wise here. You still love your ex husband/wife or gf/bf even if they pull a scandalous act?

Yes.

What's broken when such an act occurs is trust. If you completely stop loving them as a result of broken trust, perhaps you never truly loved them at all.

In my opinion, there are two ways love can die. When we neglect it, or when we choose not to love anymore.



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Re: I hear this all the time. What's the point of people telling
« Reply #8 on: February 04, 2012, 12:02:11 PM »
Define scandalous act?

Because something scandalous like going to the club dancing up on girls VS. having sex with someone is TWO TOTALLY different acts.

By chance you really want to know; if you're in a relationship or have a s/o then go have sex with a different person from the opposite gender then report it back to us by the end of next week.


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Re: I hear this all the time. What's the point of people telling
« Reply #9 on: February 04, 2012, 12:40:45 PM »
By chance you really want to know; if you're in a relationship or have a s/o then go have sex with a different person from the opposite gender then report it back to us by the end of next week.

Did you graduated 8th grade yet? Your grammar and sentencing structure is 8th grade level. My little brother can make more snese than you hun. You must be F.O.B. "Fresh off the boat". Go ask others if you don't know what that means..

Maybe your s/o told you "iloveyou" and is sleeping with another man, because you have pencil weeny. Ever thought of that?



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Re: I hear this all the time. What's the point of people telling
« Reply #10 on: February 04, 2012, 01:30:45 PM »
Did you graduated 8th grade yet? Your grammar and sentencing structure is 8th grade level. My little brother can make more snese than you hun. You must be F.O.B. "Fresh off the boat". Go ask others if you don't know what that means..

Maybe your s/o told you "iloveyou" and is sleeping with another man, because you have pencil weeny. Ever thought of that?

I stand up for the F.O.B.s I appreciate them & they appreciate me. I don't care how you look like behind that screen. Take a close look at yourself in the mirror. Have you ever wonder how you got here? Take another close look at a spelling error you made. I don't want to take out all the fun so I'll be nice & let you find other errors you made. After you fix your errors, can you kindly show us where you correct them by comparing it to original post with the errors. When I check back you better have your errors corrected Justakiss.

Anyhow back to the subject. Who would want a s/o that is like that in the 1st place?


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Re: I hear this all the time. What's the point of people telling
« Reply #11 on: February 04, 2012, 02:32:37 PM »
that they love each other then later on breaking up? It seems the word love is worthless there. Seriously I think people should really consider what they say, not just because they're feeling it at the moment but into the future, & mean what they say. What do you think?

u wanna kno what the truth is, it's becus everybody is too horny for more than one person, they can't stand just being with one person they want more.  Thats the problem.



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Re: I hear this all the time. What's the point of people telling
« Reply #12 on: February 04, 2012, 03:15:40 PM »
Justakiss you haven't shown us the corrections to your errors. Does it really take you this long just to fix your errors? I gave you plenty of time. What's with the long wait?


Like I say again, who would want a s/o that is like that in the 1st place?


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Re: I hear this all the time. What's the point of people telling
« Reply #13 on: February 06, 2012, 04:19:51 AM »
Just because two people love each other emotionally doesn't always mean that they should be together.



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Re: I hear this all the time. What's the point of people telling
« Reply #14 on: February 06, 2012, 04:35:05 AM »
1.  The 3 letter words, I love You is only powerful when they hear it for the very first time.


2.  So save it when you are trying to get booty.  otherwise, just say I like you or I lie you. 



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