Men...

[Jelicas]

so I was reading this article/forum online about women being looser after having children. It's unbelievable how some of these men react to their wife's "looseness"....c'mon men, you were the ones that contributed to this beautiful child...and because women have to endure the pain and suffering of child bearing, men think they have the right to judge and say the women that bear their child is too loose? Thus, they (men) turn to affairs. That is sooo wrong. (I know this may not be true for some men and women, but just saying....)

[IB TIAM NEEJ]

There are numerous books and some classes on tightening that inner muscle and even how to squirt.  When there's a problem, there's always a solution.

ITN 

[AOZ]

where's the article?  

i don't think all women get loose after childbirth.  i think most women go back to their usual sizes.  the loose ones will stay loose and the tight ones will stay tight.  

some women who never gave birth b4 are more loose... tsi muaj muscles there li. 

 

[dogtags3154]

Maybe after birth women do lose some tightness, but that's also after having sex. Those men who are so concerned with their women being loose, isn't actually concerned about their women beiong loose. In other words, they become so insecure about their penis size, that that becomes their main focus. So to make themselves feel better about their insecurities, they blame their women.

I've been with single mother's before, even one who had more than 4 children, and let me tell you....."it feels so good!!" Hahaha. And it doesn't feel good because they know what they're doing, but becuase I rather not be insecure about my size and just enjoy the sex life my gf and I have. Let's be truthful and face the facts....most men are selfish lovers. They just want to get their nut on and go one with their lives. But if you knew what to do, children or not, sex with a woman is still very enjoyable for her, and to me.

Stop focusing on how small or big your D1ck is, and focus on making it enjoyable.

[Jelicas]

There are numerous books and some classes on tightening that inner muscle and even how to squirt.  When there's a problem, there's always a solution.

ITN 

Yes...that's true. After reading all these things....I started doing kegel exercises like crazy.

where's the article? 

i don't think all women get loose after childbirth.  i think most women go back to their usual sizes.  the loose ones will stay loose and the tight ones will stay tight. 

some women who never gave birth b4 are more loose... tsi muaj muscles there li. 

 

I feel sorry for the ones with no muscles there...I hope that's not my case in the future. I forgot where the article is, but I was googling it, and there's tons of comments on this. There's not only bad comments though, there are some women that say they do enjoy sex a lot more afterwards because of the increase in orgasms, and some husbands say their wives are the same. I did find an article that I thought was interesting while trying to find that one...here's the link if you're interested in reading it. 

http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/all-about-sex/201109/the-rare-truth-about-tight-and-loose-women

Maybe after birth women do lose some tightness, but that's also after having sex. Those men who are so concerned with their women being loose, isn't actually concerned about their women beiong loose. In other words, they become so insecure about their penis size, that that becomes their main focus. So to make themselves feel better about their insecurities, they blame their women.

I've been with single mother's before, even one who had more than 4 children, and let me tell you....."it feels so good!!" Hahaha. And it doesn't feel good because they know what they're doing, but becuase I rather not be insecure about my size and just enjoy the sex life my gf and I have. Let's be truthful and face the facts....most men are selfish lovers. They just want to get their nut on and go one with their lives. But if you knew what to do, children or not, sex with a woman is still very enjoyable for her, and to me.

Stop focusing on how small or big your D1ck is, and focus on making it enjoyable.

  ....That's great. I agree. If you love each other, make the best of it, both partners are going to grow old regardless, and not only can women get a bit loose, but men could lose their stamina as well. We should all just enjoy life and enjoy ourselves.

[jiggles]

Vice versa...women may not be virgin tight like before as men may not be rock solid hard like before

[non dormis]

this is why men go to laos and thailand. then they come back and they're happy for a few months and treat their wives good and then they go back to laos and thailand.

both men and women should do this when they are faced with sexual problems from their significant other. that way they can both continue loving one another.

[parana]

so I was reading this article/forum online about women being looser after having children. It's unbelievable how some of these men react to their wife's "looseness"....c'mon men, you were the ones that contributed to this beautiful child...and because women have to endure the pain and suffering of child bearing, men think they have the right to judge and say the women that bear their child is too loose? Thus, they (men) turn to affairs. That is sooo wrong. (I know this may not be true for some men and women, but just saying....)

Looseness may not necessarily be the reason men cheat.  Rather..., the passion, the attention, and the energy the two put forth toward sex may have slightly changed since their child is now becoming an energy consuming part of their lives.  If she's busy and just wants to push him off of her belly with a quicky, she better be prepare to face reality  .   

[Jelicas]

this is why men go to laos and thailand. then they come back and they're happy for a few months and treat their wives good and then they go back to laos and thailand.

both men and women should do this when they are faced with sexual problems from their significant other. that way they can both continue loving one another.

You do have a point, but these problems can be solved in other ways. Besides, I personally don't think it's "love" when infidelity is involved.

Looseness may not necessarily be the reason men cheat.  Rather..., the passion, the attention, and the energy the two put forth toward sex may have slightly changed since their child is now becoming an energy consuming part of their lives.  If she's busy and just wants to push him off of her belly with a quicky, she better be prepare to face reality  .   

True....but at least she's letting him hit it. The article/forum I read was about this guy's wife's "looseness" though...it wasn't about the love making not being good. I do understand there's many factors to why people cheat, but I thought the "looseness" was a lame excuse for men with S.O. that bear their child.

[parana]

You do have a point, but these problems can be solved in other ways. Besides, I personally don't think it's "love" when infidelity is involved.

True....but at least she's letting him hit it. The article/forum I read was about this guy's wife's "looseness" though...it wasn't about the love making not being good. I do understand there's many factors to why people cheat, but I thought the "looseness" was a lame excuse for men with S.O. that bear their child.

"looseness" is just an excuse.  Sure...., when her hole can fit two larg fists then he might be disappointed but what about other holes?  Make it work and it will work for the best.  Right  !

[Jelicas]

"looseness" is just an excuse.  Sure...., when her hole can fit two larg fists then he might be disappointed but what about other holes?  Make it work and it will work for the best.  Right  !

Right! 

[parana]

Right! 

glad you got a kick out of it!

for a serious note..., if her "looseness" is the result of my action, I would never complain nor look down on her.  In fact, I'd cherish her even more than before .

[Jelicas]

glad you got a kick out of it!

for a serious note..., if her "looseness" is the result of my action, I would never complain nor look down on her.  In fact, I'd cherish her even more than before .

Aw, that's great to know.

[Believe_N_Me]

People, in general, are just selfish lovers. A man loses interest in his wife because she's aged and lost her glow after childbearing. A woman loses interest in her husband because he's not as attentive and inspiring as when he first started courting her.

Selfish, I say, selfish.

If people are so hung up about these things then just don't get married, period. Stay single so that you always have to keep yourself on the up and up to attract the next fling.

[woofwoof]

so I was reading this article/forum online about women being looser after having children. It's unbelievable how some of these men react to their wife's "looseness"....c'mon men, you were the ones that contributed to this beautiful child...and because women have to endure the pain and suffering of child bearing, men think they have the right to judge and say the women that bear their child is too loose? Thus, they (men) turn to affairs. That is sooo wrong. (I know this may not be true for some men and women, but just saying....)

All depends if she's been fawked before?  If I was her first, then I would say that to her. If someone had fawked her brains out before I did, then YEAP, she's loose.  However, I wouldn't have a child with her if I was not her first.