yoo.. this is ur boy wtf... ok ima start out by saying do u love urself first? that means do u love ur job, weight,hair style,clothing,etc.... if u dont love urself then learn to love urself first.... wat ive learned in my short life to today is learn to love urself.. i didnt realli find love until i started working out, got lean,lost weight,got more active, and then before i knew it women were checking me out and then i was the one who decided if i wanted her or her or her or her..... when i was chubby nobody wanted to holla at me..but now that im taking care of myself daily and im more leaner, i swear to god everywhere i go i see eyes jus lookin and women of all ages from 19-to about 40 jus looking... and i can see it in their eyes that they are interested... but enuff about me all i gotta say is if u dont love urself then its gonna be hard to find a guy to love u... and find a guy that makes u laugh ... even if hes not all that as long as he maks u laugh n smile then u'll be ok... i onli speak from experience.... . and when u do learn to love urself, then others i guaranteee u ,will love u too... good luck to u.....