Because your God specifically told you not to. It's in the ducking 10 Commandments for God's sake! Thou shalt not covet they neighbor's wife. You gonna disobey? I have no master. That's the respect you show to your God, duckin' ZERO and that's why I think you're just a dumbass wannabe Christian who doesn't even know how to begin to be Christian.
What's the punishment in the Bible for adultery? I'll give you a hint, it's giant rocks and little rocks pelting you till you die. That's what your Bible says we should do to you.
Clear enough moron? I take it back you're super dumb dude...blondes t guy I have ever come across in this life.
My Vang girl, I loved her...I'm proud of her...I was going to marry her. We were so broken and no one cared about us. She did things that touched my heart, no other person has ever done for me. I didn't just duck her then ditch her, I loved her with all my heart no matter what. I lost a lot and risked it all for her. I never set out for it to be with her that way, we started as friends and confided in each other. Our friendship grew into love unexpectedly and I followed my heart. Can you say you have that kind of commitment in your life?
I am a better human being today because she and I met, we helped lift each other up when no one else cared to or knew how to. My experience with her changed my life for the better as did her's with me. We learned a lot about love, it didn't work out but she was what I needed at that time in my life and I was what she needed. We saved each other and today I'm a much happier and better person because of it. I took a huge risk and followed my heart. Can you say you have that kind of conviction in your life?
In Hmong culture it's backwards as hell. You can be an uncle and marry your niece, two first cousins can marry. But oh no two people who share one clan name who aren't even remotely related by blood can't. Yeah those are some dumbass stupid traditions that may have at one time served a purpose but what purpose do they serve in the modern world here where we are now? Zilch...hold on to some dumb ideas all your life and never grow and mature in mind.
Well your hmong rules says that thou shalt not fawk your last name.. now what? naw mean?

now to rid of this ignorance, you should ban yourself from the hmong communities and fawk last name all day and all night as you wishes too right? Have you ran away from your own hmong culture lately? naw mean?

Now lets talk less about you and more about me. LOL
cov·et [kuhv-it] Show IPA
verb (used with object)
1.
to desire wrongfully, inordinately, or without due regard for the rights of others: to covet another's property.
2.
to wish for, especially eagerly: He won the prize they all coveted.
verb (used without object)
3.
to have an inordinate or wrongful desire.
There is no desire and there is no wish and there is no sex. I am only a service provider like a friend who confides in another friend to keep them happy or forget about their bastard husband for a moment.
To covet is to want another man's wife but read my initial statement. If I want another man's wife then why am I sending them home to their husband? naw mean?

Then again, it is still not my fault if they come to me and confides in me. How wrong is it when they get a time out from their busy life and be happy for a change? All women deserves to be happy naw mean?

Oh and as for the cousin ducking...in the Bible Lot's wife gets turned into a pillar of salt. To continue his bloodline your God instructed his daughters to get him drunk and duck him so they could have more of his babies. See, God is cool with incest but not adultery.
In the middle ages your church used to permit people molesting kids as long as they paid a "sin tax". But you cannot get divorced in your church. See, the church ordains and puts a pass on it but not divorce for adulterers.
cousins fawking is primitive so ask yourself, are you primitive? naw mean?
so to combat this, you ran away from your has been christian religion and fawk same last name all you want like eating at an all you can eat buffet eh?
There are justifiable reasoning behind them primitive acts. The world was corrupted and the only man left that was not corrupted is lot and so his daughters thought that there were no justifiable men left so they drugged him and got kids by him.
Same thing with you. There is no one else left in this world but vangs, the same last name as yourself and is tabooed by your own culture but you have to fawk it anyway. Are you primitive is the question. naw mean?