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Re: Mom hates my Korean fiance?!
« Reply #15 on: April 08, 2014, 01:48:08 AM »
It looks like you're looking for encouragement and some justification for your position.

Have you ever read the Joy Luck Club.

I don't know why I just asked that but I did. The korean guy wants you to pay half of his ice cream? Now what kind of man does that? Correct me if I'm wrong, but then the other korean guy is a gigalow. The only one that worked was the girl who remarried a Chinese guy after divorcing the korean guy who wants everything split down the middle.

I think your mom is shocked with your choice because she didn't have a say in it. You left your parents with no words because you were away from them for a period of time to only come back engaged to a korean man? Maybe their intention of letting you go teach abroad wasn't for the purpose of marrying you off into a korean family.

In other news if you find a Song Hye Kyo look-alike please msg me. Thanks ahead.

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Re: Mom hates my Korean fiance?!
« Reply #16 on: April 09, 2014, 12:01:55 AM »
Just screw around, simple as that... Why bother the formality?

Seriously though, I once knew someone whom went against her families' wishes and married a Korean dude. Her life wasn't glamorous or happy like she'd imagined. Communication must of being hard as it isn't a natural thing between races and she's stuck with the dude. Everyday she cooks and clean, takes care of the kids, while the dude sits, drink, and play video game day after day after coming home from work; sometimes throwing a tantrum.  So I guess, everyone "wreaks what they'd sow..."

XoXo is different. She's got some $$$ to feed him for a long, long time.



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Re: Mom hates my Korean fiance?!
« Reply #17 on: April 09, 2014, 12:29:04 AM »
Big Kiss, little hug, Big Kiss, little hug.....I wonder why all the Hmong kids these days are not going back to Laos to teach English to their Hmong people? Why is everyone going to Korea to teach English?



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Re: Mom hates my Korean fiance?!
« Reply #18 on: April 09, 2014, 06:12:22 PM »
Big Kiss, little hug, Big Kiss, little hug.....I wonder why all the Hmong kids these days are not going back to Laos to teach English to their Hmong people? Why is everyone going to Korea to teach English?

Because they want to bring home a Korean bf/gf, the experience of being there in Korea, and nothing to do  with those "stupid - boring" Hmong people in Laos or Thailand. j/p

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She probably does. Whether she thought it thru or just live for the moment for now & worry later, it's her choice and life decision.


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Re: Mom hates my Korean fiance?!
« Reply #19 on: April 09, 2014, 10:09:51 PM »
 
 



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Re: Mom hates my Korean fiance?!
« Reply #20 on: April 10, 2014, 12:31:27 AM »
 
VH, how come it's never the other way around where poor lonely guy with no money finds a rich korean woman who wants to marry him. It's always the other way around for the poor guys. Hmong guys are poor to begin with, none of us who came to the states were born into wealth. Not even those born into GVP's family.



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Re: Mom hates my Korean fiance?!
« Reply #21 on: April 10, 2014, 07:19:49 AM »
Give her time. That's all.



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Re: Mom hates my Korean fiance?!
« Reply #22 on: April 10, 2014, 07:34:44 AM »
VH, how come it's never the other way around where poor lonely guy with no money finds a rich korean woman who wants to marry him. It's always the other way around for the poor guys. Hmong guys are poor to begin with, none of us who came to the states were born into wealth. Not even those born into GVP's family.

Yeah I know...the only poor guys that marries into rich family seems to be those in bollywood movies.  Or it's some anime, but those are all Japanime stuff and she's usually some super powered up alien or something and she just needs his love to save the entire universe.  LOL.



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Re: Mom hates my Korean fiance?!
« Reply #23 on: April 10, 2014, 04:24:38 PM »
Thank you for giving me advice everyone!
Recently, my mom has been getting distant from me. I really hope this doesn't go on any longer, because I am going back to Korea soon for my wedding(I am having two weddings, one in South Korea and one in the U.S). Yes, I do plan on living in South Korea after marriage, but I will try to visit my family when I can. I just hope my mom will love my future children and not treat them like outsiders.



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Re: Mom hates my Korean fiance?!
« Reply #24 on: April 10, 2014, 06:22:38 PM »
Komapsumnida.. .




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Re: Mom hates my Korean fiance?!
« Reply #25 on: April 10, 2014, 09:06:54 PM »
당신의 결혼식에 축하

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Re: Mom hates my Korean fiance?!
« Reply #26 on: April 10, 2014, 11:48:06 PM »
Because they want to bring home a Korean bf/gf, the experience of being there in Korea, and nothing to do  with those "stupid - boring" Hmong people in Laos or Thailand. j/p

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She probably does. Whether she thought it thru or just live for the moment for now & worry later, it's her choice and life decision.

Yes, it's up to her, NightRider.



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Re: Mom hates my Korean fiance?!
« Reply #27 on: April 10, 2014, 11:50:20 PM »
Thank you for giving me advice everyone!
Recently, my mom has been getting distant from me. I really hope this doesn't go on any longer, because I am going back to Korea soon for my wedding(I am having two weddings, one in South Korea and one in the U.S). Yes, I do plan on living in South Korea after marriage, but I will try to visit my family when I can. I just hope my mom will love my future children and not treat them like outsiders.

I thought you are going to bring him to America. 



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Re: Mom hates my Korean fiance?!
« Reply #28 on: April 11, 2014, 12:46:33 AM »
I thought you are going to bring him to America. 
한국이 훨씬 낫다.

미국 사람들은 아시아 인을 좋아하지 않는다.



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Re: Mom hates my Korean fiance?!
« Reply #29 on: April 11, 2014, 10:03:37 AM »
Hope u the best...hope that u don't get tricked into a relationship.. .



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