Well, sometimes you have to invest 2hrs of drive time for a woman. You can't expect them to come calling if you can't past your own zip code.
You can't be cheap, allow you to be seen as cheap as well as tell a woman you have money.
The other thing is, go with the flow... That's my motto. Feel out the discussion and go with it.
I was born cheap. One look at me and a woman knows I'm a poor guy.
My car reminds them of their parents car when they first arrived in America.
I cut my own hair. It has no style. Every hair is just sticking up. They are all the same length.
All my clothes are from second hand store except for my underwear and shocks.
I drive a car that's 10x cheaper than my Hmong friends's car.
I bought a house that is way cheaper than my income would allow me to.
I just feel poor. I feel out of place in a way. As one woman confessed in our group that she was from a farming family and that she never felt belong in the profession she is in. She felt like she was an impostor. I felt similar. Twenty something years ago I was catching fish with my hands in the muddy stream somewhere in Thailand.
Sounds to me like I'm doing everything to get rejected by a woman. Will there be a woman who can see me beyond the image I'm projecting and see the boy who used to run in the mud with one hand holding a bag of fighting fish?
