The ducked up thingy about Buddhism is that when you get reincarnated, you will lose all memories of your past. In fact, what's so messed up about it is when you fall in love with somebody on your first date, what happens when you die and get reincarnated? How are you going to remember the one true love that was there for the first time before you were taken? This is ONE ducked up thingy about Buddhism. Why do Hmong even practice Buddhism by mixing with Shamanism? Would you want to lose the memories of your wife, your parents, your family, and your life? duck NO!