...there's bad, crazy hmong people everywhere, we have so many cheating and domestic killings here in the u.s. , that was just one little cheating incident in laos, nothing compared to here in the u.s., including the rate of crimes and homicides on the news everyday.
Even though Laos is still under communist rule, it's pretty safe to travel there if you go peacefully and come back peacefully. Many problems that hmong u.s. have while over there are self inflicted problems. Many u.s. hmong folks go there looking for trouble and thinking they can do what they want over there, putting on any kind of behavior they want to because they are from the u.s., they have money, that's why they get into trouble. The country is not the problem, it's the people bringing it onto themselves.
Don't know the truth behind this incident but there are men who have fetish going after other men's wives, they like it even better than going after a single girl. Must be the thrill and danger that makes their blood thirst after married women.
Don't blame the country, it's just the few individuals, wether here in the u.s. or in Laos.