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Re: Things Hmong guys hate...
« Reply #15 on: January 15, 2016, 11:35:02 AM »
:2funny: :2funny: :2funny: :2funny: anyone who thinks like this is  :idiot2: :idiot2: because it's like a threat of stomping some hmong men's pride and ego.

Ambition and success in a hmong woman is attractive.

By saying the above... you yourself have become attractive...  ^-^



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Re: Things Hmong guys hate...
« Reply #16 on: January 15, 2016, 11:40:25 AM »
Things Hmong guys hate...

1. Hmong girls who date non-Hmong guys.
2. Professionally successful Hmong girls
3. Admitting they're wrong
4. Acknowledging that he's not in his prime
5. Getting labeled as old fashioned
6. Responsibiliti es (bills, taking care of kids, washing dishes, taking out trash, etc)

the last one is true for every men! Lol



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Re: Things Hmong guys hate...
« Reply #17 on: January 15, 2016, 11:54:56 AM »
hmong men tend to have "traditonal value" with superficial expectations.



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Re: Things Hmong guys hate...
« Reply #18 on: January 15, 2016, 11:57:19 AM »
Hang out with long enough with a certain group of people, and you'll pick up on tendencies.  Here is a list of things Hmong guys hate.  Of course, it is not all Hmong guys.  Most of these don't even pertain to me.  But, I can't deny that it pertains to some if not many....

1. Hmong girls who date non-Hmong guys.


Some Hmong guys get pissed at this.  For some reason, they take it as a personal rejection.  I wonder if this would have anything to do with filial piety within the Hmong culture?  Someone should write a paper on that.

Its human nature, people tend to get offended or protect their own kind whether it's men, women or children.



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Re: Things Hmong guys hate...
« Reply #19 on: January 15, 2016, 12:01:03 PM »
2. Professionally successful Hmong girls

Some guys automatically think a girl is snobby if she is professional successful, especially if she is more professionally successful than him.  They may not even know that girl that well, but that won't stop them from assuming so.

There was a time when most successful Hmong women were a little bit stubborn, cocky and think highly of themselves bcus they have a degree and get paid more than the husband.  However those times are kinda over nowadays, bcus Hmong people are more open now and they learn that nobody really care anymore if you have a degree or not.



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Re: Things Hmong guys hate...
« Reply #20 on: January 15, 2016, 12:02:20 PM »
Hey trouble, you like me?

We're discussing what Hmong men dislike in this thread, not trouble.  ;D



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Re: Things Hmong guys hate...
« Reply #21 on: January 15, 2016, 03:06:59 PM »
Its human nature, people tend to get offended or protect their own kind whether it's men, women or children.

Not I and some people I know as we are all "humans" so I protect those that need help regardless of race, gender, or age.

When I was in the social service field, some Hmong didn't like the way I do my job because I would report them just like any other American. They give the "Hmong hlub Hmong" look but I'm like nope, you made the decision to break the law, you're paying for it regardless if you're Hmong, English, Chinese, Mexicans, Blacks, Arabs, etc....

I let them know clearly that I don't judge people by race/ethnic group but by the individual... O0



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Re: Things Hmong guys hate...
« Reply #22 on: January 15, 2016, 04:04:32 PM »
Small brain? Lol  ;D



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Re: Things Hmong guys hate...
« Reply #23 on: January 15, 2016, 04:51:41 PM »

Hmong men hate paying for D!ck Fees! 

 :P :D :idiot2: :2funny:

I termed that descriptively as dhuav them "Nqi zoo nyob".  LOLz



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Re: Things Hmong guys hate...
« Reply #24 on: January 16, 2016, 07:34:18 PM »
Oh wow, someone added to my list.  Contributions are always welcomed.  Anyways, moving on...

7. Being compared to other guys.....espec ially other Hmong guys


This can be really frustrating for some. 

Look at (insert name) boy, he just (insert accomplishment).

Why aren't you a doctor?  Why aren't you an engineer?  Why aren't you a lawyer?  Why don't you have more money?  Why don't you have a nice house?  Why don't you have nice clothes?  Why don't you have a nice wife?  Why don't you have a degree in this?  Why don't you have a degree in that? 

(insert name) boy has all these things.


It doesn't even matter that you are doing well yourself.  The grass is always greener for those making the comparison. 



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Re: Things Hmong guys hate...
« Reply #25 on: January 17, 2016, 10:37:25 PM »
hmong men tend to have "traditonal value" with superficial expectations.

nope..we have superficial expectations with traditional values...



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Re: Things Hmong guys hate...
« Reply #26 on: January 19, 2016, 06:42:37 PM »
8. Getting called out for not being Hmong enough

I guess this is the equivalent of a black person being called "not black enough."  But anyways, some Hmong guys really hold their Hmong pride, and being called out for anything different is offensive. 



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Re: Things Hmong guys hate...
« Reply #27 on: January 22, 2016, 12:15:00 AM »
9.  Losing

Whether it is a game or an argument, Hmong guys hate losing.  It doesn't even matter if the game or argument is unimportant.  Some Hmong guys just hate losing. 



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Re: Things Hmong guys hate...
« Reply #28 on: January 22, 2016, 01:40:32 AM »
... kekeke  ...   :2funny:

Overall, DUH-uh-Ha'Mung ha'primitive ha'ignorant ha'clueless ha'idioctic ha'edumacated HA'MUNG ha'ranting HA'MUNGINGLY ha'nonsense ha'incessantly ARE ha'distasteful and ha'respulsive sex indiscriminate  ...  KEKEKE  ...   >:D



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Re: Things Hmong guys hate...
« Reply #29 on: January 31, 2018, 12:27:50 PM »
2. Professionally successful Hmong girls

Some guys automatically think a girl is snobby if she is professional successful, especially if she is more professionally successful than him.  They may not even know that girl that well, but that won't stop them from assuming so.
And how successful are we talking about here?  $millionaire status with Executive level or leadership positions or someone with a stable job?  6 figures, 7 figures or 5 figure salary?



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