Hang out with long enough with a certain group of people, and you'll pick up on tendencies. Here is a list of things Hmong guys hate. Of course, it is not all Hmong guys. Most of these don't even pertain to me. But, I can't deny that it pertains to some if not many....
1. Hmong girls who date non-Hmong guys.
Some Hmong guys get pissed at this. For some reason, they take it as a personal rejection. I wonder if this would have anything to do with filial piety within the Hmong culture? Someone should write a paper on that.
There are many cultures/religious groups With similar attitude toward women who have or wanting to explore the other green grass fields. My opinion is that it has less to do with “filia piety” but more of impurity issues.