Heres my story...
I too couldve been a victim, although not as severe..
Im not saying whos right and whos wrong here or whos to blame in this young ladys incident.
But im going to tell my story how i couldve been a victim as well.
Anyways...frid ay night...me and my boys was like "yo lets hit up the club"...
I was like "cool, lets do it"..
So anyways...got to the club..drank a bit too much...
I kept telling myself i need to keep it together! I cant pass out! I better not pass out, if i do someone might steal my wallet. I kinda already knew the risks if i passed out. Anyways, i got escorted out of the club becuase theres "no sleeping in the club"...i kept putting my head down...
Then as i was escorted out and was outaide the club now, i sat on a bench, i kept telling myself i cannot pass out! Someone might run my pockets if i do!
So yeah, i couldve been a victim, my wallet couldve or could not have gotten stolen but i knew the risk involved if i passed out.
If i did pass out and got my wallet stolen, i woyldve been mad at myself for putting myself in that position in the first place. I didnt have to go to the club. And if i did, i didnt have to get almost passed out drunk. Yes its a crime i got my wallet stolen too but i have to put some of the blame to myself too for putting myself in tjat situation.
The world isnt full of nice people and isnt full of people thats not out to get you.
I always tell people who end up getting in trouble alot or in bad predicaments that theu should have never put themself in that kind of position in the first place.
Avoidance is key.
Oh i got a story!
House party, college party...anyway s..my friend was like "yo come through!" Basically he didnt know anyone so he wantes someone to hang out with. Anyways so im there...and this guy bumps me, and i bump into this girl, i had a cup of jungle juice in my hand and it spilt all over her shoes. She was upset. I left the party shortly after that, i didnt kniw if she had a bf or not but i wasnt going to get my butt kicked!