joot,
It seems you have a liberal understanding of Conservatives as most Hmong people do because they tend to live in a bubble - namely the liberal bubble.
Jesus never promoted a socialistic approach to charity. Jesus called for each individual to be charitable. How can you consider yourself charitable just because you donated to an organization? That is not charity at all. Compassion and charity is what you do with the people in your sphere.
Imagine if everybody took care of their family and their friends. Nobody would be homeless or a beggar. The reason we have poor people is because their own families have abandoned them, sometimes for good reasons, too. If you see a homeless person, don't just give them a dollar and pat yourself on the back. In order to be truly compassionate you need to invite that homeless person into your family. How many of you liberals are willing to do that? Heck, many of you don't even want your own parents to live in your gated communities.
Furthermore, your definition of poor people is far from scripture. Show me where the bible said an able-bodied person is helpless and in need of charity? Did the 10 lepers make their situation worse by popping out kids left and right without a home? Did Mary Magdalene, have 5 kids from 5 different men to make her situation worse?
Poor people nowadays get that way because they are godless, thus, make godless decisions. They don't have good money management skills (something that Christ followers are called to have), and they lack self discipline when it comes to pleasures of the flesh.
I highly resent that you use Christianity to guilt others to clean up after your mess, which is the typical Liberal attitude.
Since Original Sin, God ordered that men were to toil under the sun.
As far as acceptance goes, I encourage all sinners to seek God. However, it is heretic to omit preaching sins for fear of hurting people's feelings.
The modern churches are losing members because they are no longer bible believing churches. The only people in attendance are those who are looking to justify their sinful ways and it's no wonder they are being exploited by the likes of someone like Joel Olsteen.
1 Corinthians 6:9-11New International Version (NIV)
9 Or do you not know that wrongdoers will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor men who have sex with men[a] 10 nor thieves nor the greedy nor drunkards nor slanderers nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God. 11 And that is what some of you were. But you were washed, you were sanctified, you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and by the Spirit of our God.
Christians are called to repent of their sins. Do you liberals even know what "repent" means? Or are you doing what you always do and applying your own definition again?