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Re: Ladies, When a guy hits on you and you're not interested..
« Reply #15 on: September 12, 2017, 01:36:39 PM »
Scary when someone you don't know anything about knows so much about you, right?  :o :o :( :( ??? ??? :( :-\



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Re: Ladies, When a guy hits on you and you're not interested..
« Reply #16 on: September 12, 2017, 01:45:17 PM »
Scary when someone you don't know anything about knows so much about you, right?  :o :o :( :( ??? ??? :( :-\

It might be your neighbors from next door.  Change your password so they can't steal your WiFi internet.



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Re: Ladies, When a guy hits on you and you're not interested..
« Reply #17 on: September 12, 2017, 03:42:16 PM »
It might be your neighbors from next door.  Change your password so they can't steal your WiFi internet.
That would explain why, each time I moved, my neighbor moved to the house next door to me huh..  ;D



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Re: Ladies, When a guy hits on you and you're not interested..
« Reply #18 on: September 14, 2017, 02:29:18 AM »
You should be respectful and perhaps excited that they are still interested in hitting on you.  This is evident that you are still a beauty queen.  If I were you, you would neither do nor say anything out of disturbance in this notice.  Soon after the fact, you can kindly inform them that you are not available.  Any "genuine" gentleman would understand and reverence that.



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Re: Ladies, When a guy hits on you and you're not interested..
« Reply #19 on: September 14, 2017, 06:22:28 AM »
How do you respond?

I would tell them that I'm not available, that I already have a boyfriend or husband.

Woman married or not always like to be picked up. It doesn't mean they will sleep with the dude but it makes them feel attractive.

Not necessarily true about the "always like to be picked up."  It depends on the woman.   ;D



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Re: Ladies, When a guy hits on you and you're not interested..
« Reply #20 on: September 14, 2017, 08:50:32 AM »
I would tell them that I'm not available, that I already have a boyfriend or husband.

  Doesn't that make it seem like if you were available you'd go for it?



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Re: Ladies, When a guy hits on you and you're not interested..
« Reply #21 on: September 14, 2017, 09:19:16 AM »
  Doesn't that make it seem like if you were available you'd go for it?
yes it does!  it only means her boyfriend is presently there and she doesn't want any TrouBle!

had she said, 'sorry, i'm not interested...b ah blah blah!'  we'd get the hint!  :D ;D


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Re: Ladies, When a guy hits on you and you're not interested..
« Reply #22 on: September 14, 2017, 10:00:23 AM »
yes it does!  it only means her boyfriend is presently there and she doesn't want any TrouBle!

had she said, 'sorry, i'm not interested...b ah blah blah!'  we'd get the hint!  :D ;D
So go befriend her and wait for the day they break up. lol.  You can help speed up the process too by being that guy friend she shares her problems with and pretend to be all sympathetic all the while keep telling her "Oh... you deserve so much better", "You deserve so much more", "You don't deserve that", "You should really dump him, he doesn't deserve you".   >:D



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Re: Ladies, When a guy hits on you and you're not interested..
« Reply #23 on: September 14, 2017, 10:10:04 AM »
So go befriend her and wait for the day they break up. lol.  You can help speed up the process too by being that guy friend she shares her problems with and pretend to be all sympathetic all the while keep telling her "Oh... you deserve so much better", "You deserve so much more", "You don't deserve that", "You should really dump him, he doesn't deserve you".   >:D
yep...she would be worth getting into Trouble with!



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Re: Ladies, When a guy hits on you and you're not interested..
« Reply #24 on: September 14, 2017, 12:02:32 PM »
Keep hinting at it bro.  I think she's starting to come around.  O0



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Re: Ladies, When a guy hits on you and you're not interested..
« Reply #25 on: September 14, 2017, 12:34:00 PM »
Years ago in my 20s, two guys and I were at a party. A decent Hmong girl was sitting alone as her friends were up dancing with guys.

We decided to ask her for a dance--yeah, to hit on her.

So, I was the one to ask her for a friend of mine.

"No, I don't want to dance," she said. "I'm here to dance."

Embarrassed, I told the guys that next time they had to pay me to help them out like that. lol


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Re: Ladies, When a guy hits on you and you're not interested..
« Reply #26 on: September 14, 2017, 12:44:27 PM »
If anything I would like to believe the reaction would be the same regardless of whether you're a man or a woman or if you're in a relationship or otherwise. Respectfully inform them of your interest or lack thereof and move on from there.



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Re: Ladies, When a guy hits on you and you're not interested..
« Reply #27 on: September 15, 2017, 03:04:21 AM »
YAX,

Leave them 15-year-old Hmong-Lao girls alone. They told me that they don't appreciate your kwv txhiaj because it creeps them out.  :2funny:



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Re: Ladies, When a guy hits on you and you're not interested..
« Reply #28 on: September 15, 2017, 10:31:51 AM »
She's even asking other people about me.  ***SHRIEKS**



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Re: Ladies, When a guy hits on you and you're not interested..
« Reply #29 on: September 22, 2017, 02:05:58 PM »
Perhaps a woman's negative response to an old man hitting on her or an ugly guy hitting on her isn't really because they think the guy's perverted after all. Hmm.. maybe it's really just a reaction to how upset she feels that only ugly guys or ogs will hit on her.  She's probably pissed off at herself for not being able to attract better looking guys so she lashes out at them in response.  :2funny: :2funny:



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