One can learn a lot from watching Korean Drama. When it comes to love drama, the evil guy or girl, is usually obsess w/ the pab ej, nas ej, and do all they can to get him/her in the name of "love." When things don't go their way, they use the "blaming" card.. and don't accept accountability for their wrong doings, never see the point of views of others (whether they feel the same way or not) except their selfish greed.
Love is the opposite of that.