I'm a first time pet owner and I used to feel the same as you do. Having a pet is wonderful - they don't argue w/ you - talk back hahahah, love you unconditionall y, keep you company so you're never alone day or night, protective, and loyal. On the other hand, it's your responsibility to care for a breathing, living thing and your living space - meaning keep it neat and clean so when people come to the house, the odor of your pet isn't the first thing that greets them.