Finding a soul mate is not easy because it takes both to compromise. The first step is to get out there and start talking to someone. I know it’s hard especially since we’re older and been through more that we tend to look for red flags in people and make assumptions as to what if they’re like this and that. Well, finding your soulmate in PH is impossible because everyone is so secretive. I say why don’t you start with Facebook dating group.
I’m no expert in the dating field but I do know something. Girl, it all comes down to confidence. Guys don’t care if you’re old, young, fat or skinny. There will be someone out there for you who’ll like you as a whole. Communication is key because I experimented myself on Facebook dating groups. 😂 With that being said, go ahead and put yourself out there. Guys, young and old are attractive to confident woman who loves themselves. Be happy/positive and your happiness will shine through.
I used to have low self confidence thinking nobody will want me because I’m fat. Well, in PH, most of the guys on here are small minded and picky. The person who really see through sizes and didn’t judge was theking. The reasons a lot of women catfish on here is because of the high expectations. Well, girl, even I was embarrassed of myself because I wasn’t a size 2-3 like many other women on here. That all changed when theking and I commented on his post. He made me realized I’m beautiful the size I am. My advice is, you must feel comfortable in your own skin before you start dating or else you’ll put yourself down and back out when it comes to meeting the guy in person.
There are plenty of guys, young and old that are single and ready to mingle. All it takes is a hello from you. Not to brag but even after leaving my ex’s of 12 years, I still have guys on my Facebook waiting for me.
Be confident and open yourself up. Leave your past behind and move on brbaude you deserved to be love and cherished like a queen. Yes, you got that right.