How about if she had a baby that's mixed but then you dated her and married her?
Marriage is one thing but any other casual sexual encounters are stupid and immoral. Credibility is very important for every breathing human being. You spread your legs to the villager(s), get basically attached by the hip with the villager (s) then expect the few good men/women to lift you off of your feet and love you unconditionall
y without question
? I love that kind of human fantasy.