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married his relative after 15 years
« on: February 15, 2018, 11:56:15 PM »
I can't stand this guy (lets call him Sam)

He is related to my niam hlob (my uncle's wife). My parents also know his family and him from back in the old days. I met him when I was 16 and he was 24. He only visited me in my house once. Then I met him again at 19. By this time I was really in like with him. We spent some time together during the July 4th, and yes we got intimate. The whole time he said he was single. After the weekend, I went back home and a few weeks later I learned that he had gotten married. I was so heart broken because I was really infatuated with him, although we never talked about our feelings for each other or where we stand when we spent July 4th weekend together.  Anyway, I felt so sad and depress for almost a year.

4 years later I go back to July 4th in MN and met his buddy (lets call him John) from a party. John wanted to take me to the movie the next day, but when he came he brought Sam. As I walked towards them I didn't even recognized Sam. It took adjusting my eyes and then he also started talking so then I realized it was him. It was so akward because he went with John and I to see a movie. Every time John leaves to go to the bathroom etc, he would try to talk to me and ask if there is anything between John and I.  I asked John why he brought Sam along and John told me that John had told Sam that he saw me at a party and Sam wanted to come see me.  After the movie, John dropped me off at my  uncle's house. 

The next night my friends and I met with John and his friends to go hang out at the casino. Sam came along too. Every chance I am alone in the hall or further away from the group, Sam would try to come talk to me. 

I was staying at my uncle's house. The next day a guy call asking for my aunt and uncle. I told them they were at work. He then told me he's Sam. I didn't even recognize his voice. Anyway, he started telling me that he love me and always have. I was taken back and obviously didn't believe him. He told me he wanted to drop me off at the airport when I leave. He said he wanted to spend some time with me to talk to me. I knew he was married and had no intention of doing anything with him but I was curious as to what he wanted to say or do so I agree.

The next day he picked me up to drop me at the airport. There was some time so we went to the park to talk. At the park, he started telling me that he have always loved me and wanted to spend more time with me and asked if I can extend my time there with him. He said he would pay for the flight change.  I tried to ask him about his wife  (whom had just given birth to their first child a month ago at the time) but he didn't want to talk about them.  He kept saying he loves me. I told him he's lying and that I don't believe him.

He said he wanted to go to a hotel and I went with him. He paid for a room and we went into the room for about 30 minutes. There he try to kiss me and seduce me. He said he wanted to be intimate with me. I pushed him back and told him he's going to get some but not from me, and made him take me to the airport.  (I never had sex with him at the hotel). I just wanted to waste his money on the hotel.

He dropped me off at the airport and as I flew away I felt such a sense of relief! All those years I was so heart broken because he had gotten married, but now I know what kind of person he is, and I felt so happy that I didn't end up with him.

Fast forward 10 years I married my husband. Upon a funeral within my husband's clan, he came. Again, I didn't recognize him when I saw him again until he came up and said my name. He calls me by my very old name that was given to me at birth, which no one does except the old people.  That's when I learned that he's a distant relative of my husband's clan.

Now that I am married, my cousin invites me and my husband to their events and I have seen him a few times there (bc he's related to my aunt). To be honest I can't stand to look at him and I have no respect for him so I just don't call him at all.

He's come up to shake my husband's hand at events and try to talk to my husband and I. I've told my husband about my past with him and the story above to my husband. He wasn't angry or anything.



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Re: married his relative after 15 years
« Reply #1 on: February 16, 2018, 12:55:26 AM »
This guy just won't stop coming to you even when you have other guys around, huh?


It was so akward because he went with John and I to see a movie.

He's come up to shake my husband's hand at events and try to talk to my husband and I.



I can't stand this guy (lets call him Sam)

He is related to my niam hlob (my uncle's wife). My parents also know his family and him from back in the old days. I met him when I was 16 and he was 24. He only visited me in my house once. Then I met him again at 19. By this time I was really in like with him. We spent some time together during the July 4th, and yes we got intimate. The whole time he said he was single. After the weekend, I went back home and a few weeks later I learned that he had gotten married. I was so heart broken because I was really infatuated with him, although we never talked about our feelings for each other or where we stand when we spent July 4th weekend together.  Anyway, I felt so sad and depress for almost a year.

4 years later I go back to July 4th in MN and met his buddy (lets call him John) from a party. John wanted to take me to the movie the next day, but when he came he brought Sam. As I walked towards them I didn't even recognized Sam. It took adjusting my eyes and then he also started talking so then I realized it was him. It was so akward because he went with John and I to see a movie. Every time John leaves to go to the bathroom etc, he would try to talk to me and ask if there is anything between John and I.  I asked John why he brought Sam along and John told me that John had told Sam that he saw me at a party and Sam wanted to come see me.  After the movie, John dropped me off at my  uncle's house. 

The next night my friends and I met with John and his friends to go hang out at the casino. Sam came along too. Every chance I am alone in the hall or further away from the group, Sam would try to come talk to me. 

I was staying at my uncle's house. The next day a guy call asking for my aunt and uncle. I told them they were at work. He then told me he's Sam. I didn't even recognize his voice. Anyway, he started telling me that he love me and always have. I was taken back and obviously didn't believe him. He told me he wanted to drop me off at the airport when I leave. He said he wanted to spend some time with me to talk to me. I knew he was married and had no intention of doing anything with him but I was curious as to what he wanted to say or do so I agree.

The next day he picked me up to drop me at the airport. There was some time so we went to the park to talk. At the park, he started telling me that he have always loved me and wanted to spend more time with me and asked if I can extend my time there with him. He said he would pay for the flight change.  I tried to ask him about his wife  (whom had just given birth to their first child a month ago at the time) but he didn't want to talk about them.  He kept saying he loves me. I told him he's lying and that I don't believe him.

He said he wanted to go to a hotel and I went with him. He paid for a room and we went into the room for about 30 minutes. There he try to kiss me and seduce me. He said he wanted to be intimate with me. I pushed him back and told him he's going to get some but not from me, and made him take me to the airport.  (I never had sex with him at the hotel). I just wanted to waste his money on the hotel.

He dropped me off at the airport and as I flew away I felt such a sense of relief! All those years I was so heart broken because he had gotten married, but now I know what kind of person he is, and I felt so happy that I didn't end up with him.

Fast forward 10 years I married my husband. Upon a funeral within my husband's clan, he came. Again, I didn't recognize him when I saw him again until he came up and said my name. He calls me by my very old name that was given to me at birth, which no one does except the old people.  That's when I learned that he's a distant relative of my husband's clan.

Now that I am married, my cousin invites me and my husband to their events and I have seen him a few times there (bc he's related to my aunt). To be honest I can't stand to look at him and I have no respect for him so I just don't call him at all.

He's come up to shake my husband's hand at events and try to talk to my husband and I. I've told my husband about my past with him and the story above to my husband. He wasn't angry or anything.



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Re: married his relative after 15 years
« Reply #2 on: February 16, 2018, 12:04:44 PM »
So, I read your story.  Good thing you never told his wife about what he tried to do to you at the hotel.  Phew! I agree, She doesn't deserve to know anything since she must be just trash for marrying him.  I'm sure if your husband did something like that to other girls, you wouldn't wanna hear about it either right? I mean, who wants the truth when you can live a lie and why should you be the one to stop it all and help her out. She's not your sister.  You owe her nothing.  >:D >:D  >:D >:D

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Re: married his relative after 15 years
« Reply #3 on: February 16, 2018, 12:51:59 PM »
Your fault for going with his flow.  It could of been worse.  If you now know, the hell you want to go n flow with him for?  That's dangerous.  Him losing that chump change on the hotel is nothing.  I'll pay you the hotel charges just so I can think about fawking you is worth my time.  Get my drift?  You gave him blue balls n having blue balls is better than not having any balls at all. 

Stories like yours makes me think about my Hmong friends cuz they are disgusting creeps.  Giving the chance, they'll fawk underaged Hmong girls n divorcees n lonely women like you, all while their wives have no clue cuz they can rely on their boys as backup excuses. 

This John character is a creep as well.  Men talks n when we talk, we give you a name like hoes.  So you got played by John too.  He knows your past cuz Sam told him and their intention is for Sam to fawk you and leave you hanging again.

I say to tell his wife to teach that fawker a lesson but if his wife is blind like other wives out there, they will attack you instead.  But hey, at least you tried. 

Too bad you are married now or you could meet up with me and you can call me Bob. 




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« Reply #4 on: February 16, 2018, 01:01:28 PM »
Amazing doesn't seem to be the belligerent type.

But I think she's not the only chick he's been doing that to before and during his marriage.

So, I read your story.  Good thing you never told his wife about what he tried to do to you at the hotel.  Phew! I agree, She doesn't deserve to know anything since she must be just trash for marrying him.  I'm sure if your husband did something like that to other girls, you wouldn't wanna hear about it either right? I mean, who wants the truth when you can live a lie and why should you be the one to stop it all and help her out. She's not your sister.  You owe her nothing.  >:D >:D  >:D >:D

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« Reply #5 on: February 16, 2018, 01:04:02 PM »
I can see that Sam is pretty good at hooking women. Even if his wife knows and gives him hell and then releases him from it all, he'll get himself happily hooked again within days.

Your fault for going with his flow.  It could of been worse.  If you now know, the hell you want to go n flow with him for?  That's dangerous.  Him losing that chump change on the hotel is nothing.  I'll pay you the hotel charges just so I can think about fawking you is worth my time.  Get my drift?  You gave him blue balls n having blue balls is better than not having any balls at all. 

Stories like yours makes me think about my Hmong friends cuz they are disgusting creeps.  Giving the chance, they'll fawk underaged Hmong girls n divorcees n lonely women like you, all while their wives have no clue cuz they can rely on their boys as backup excuses. 

This John character is a creep as well.  Men talks n when we talk, we give you a name like hoes.  So you got played by John too.  He knows your past cuz Sam told him and their intention is for Sam to fawk you and leave you hanging again.

I say to tell his wife to teach that fawker a lesson but if his wife is blind like other wives out there, they will attack you instead.  But hey, at least you tried. 

Too bad you are married now or you could meet up with me and you can call me Bob.


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« Reply #6 on: February 16, 2018, 01:15:46 PM »
The I love you line man.  It can works wonders and works better on those you know that are crushing on you.



Easy tell is if you talk to them and they dont give you that eye contact.  It means they are too shy to look at you because you are a sexy beast.  With a victim like that, I have always loved you and let me take off your bra for you.  Promise it will not hurt since you trust me when I say I love you. 

Ghosting after I bust a nut n run back to the wife.  They get confused and go on pH to cry about it. 

Don't be a victim is the message.



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« Reply #7 on: February 16, 2018, 03:20:39 PM »
Amazing doesn't seem to be the belligerent type.

But I think she's not the only chick he's been doing that to before and during his marriage.
but cracking his egg would mean no chance of her having future encounters of the same kind from him.  ;)



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« Reply #8 on: February 16, 2018, 03:22:53 PM »
iono though.  The whole story smells kinda fishy to me.  She's saying she agreed to go to a hotel with him, but then didn't do it with him and instead just asked him to leave.  Her reason: having him waste money on a hotel.  That doesn't sound like a plausible reason for that whole ordeal.  Maybe they had one last dip but she didn't wanna admit it? That would be more plausible.  ;D



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« Reply #9 on: February 16, 2018, 03:38:28 PM »
Oh. Okay.Makes sense.

but cracking his egg would mean no chance of her having future encounters of the same kind from him.  ;)



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« Reply #10 on: February 16, 2018, 03:41:52 PM »
If she's that mad and really wants to piss him off, her story could be true. A chance to really get back at him for ditching her for another woman.

I'm surprised there's no mention of a child from the incident when she was 19 though. She admits they did it then.

iono though.  The whole story smells kinda fishy to me.  She's saying she agreed to go to a hotel with him, but then didn't do it with him and instead just asked him to leave.  Her reason: having him waste money on a hotel.  That doesn't sound like a plausible reason for that whole ordeal.  Maybe they had one last dip but she didn't wanna admit it? That would be more plausible.  ;D



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« Reply #11 on: February 16, 2018, 04:04:33 PM »
If she's that mad and really wants to piss him off, her story could be true. A chance to really get back at him for ditching her for another woman.

I'm surprised there's no mention of a child from the incident when she was 19 though. She admits they did it then.
hey, if they broke the ice already, it's a whole lot easier to try again.



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« Reply #12 on: February 16, 2018, 04:27:54 PM »
If she wasn't already married, I would agree with you 100% on that. But she's married, so I'll agree only 99% on that. lol

hey, if they broke the ice already, it's a whole lot easier to try again.



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« Reply #13 on: February 16, 2018, 11:10:57 PM »
Well, he's just another horns guy who wanted to hit it agian....





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« Reply #14 on: February 16, 2018, 11:13:52 PM »
If she's that mad and really wants to piss him off, her story could be true. A chance to really get back at him for ditching her for another woman.

I'm surprised there's no mention of a child from the incident when she was 19 though. She admits they did it then.

It's called a condom.



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