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Re: married his relative after 15 years
« Reply #15 on: February 16, 2018, 11:26:29 PM »
So, I read your story.  Good thing you never told his wife about what he tried to do to you at the hotel.  Phew! I agree, She doesn't deserve to know anything since she must be just trash for marrying him.  I'm sure if your husband did something like that to other girls, you wouldn't wanna hear about it either right? I mean, who wants the truth when you can live a lie and why should you be the one to stop it all and help her out. She's not your sister.  You owe her nothing.  >:D >:D  >:D >:D

Get my drift?

First I didn't know his wife and I didn't want to be involve in that mess.

You guys need to stop assuming. This is a true story. It's just an annoyance I just want to put out there.  Yes, that money for the hotel was  probably change to him. I'm sure I went with him to see what kind of person he is, and he proved to me that he was a bad husband.  I didn't sleep with him at the hotel.  I had no desire to be with a married man and was no longer in lust with him by that time anyway.

I told my husband everything about him in case we run into him again, I want my husband to not mingle too much with him. My husband is very polite and talks to him but keeps it general.  He has no reason to hate this guy but just so he knows the history.



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Re: married his relative after 15 years
« Reply #16 on: February 17, 2018, 11:29:42 AM »
Did they know one existed? She was 19. He was 24 or so.

It's called a condom.



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Re: married his relative after 15 years
« Reply #17 on: February 17, 2018, 11:31:06 AM »
See? You are in the 1% that I believe won't do it.

First I didn't know his wife and I didn't want to be involve in that mess.

You guys need to stop assuming. This is a true story. It's just an annoyance I just want to put out there.  Yes, that money for the hotel was  probably change to him. I'm sure I went with him to see what kind of person he is, and he proved to me that he was a bad husband.  I didn't sleep with him at the hotel.  I had no desire to be with a married man and was no longer in lust with him by that time anyway.

I told my husband everything about him in case we run into him again, I want my husband to not mingle too much with him. My husband is very polite and talks to him but keeps it general.  He has no reason to hate this guy but just so he knows the history.



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Re: married his relative after 15 years
« Reply #18 on: May 22, 2018, 10:25:09 AM »
I can't stand this guy (lets call him Sam)

He is related to my niam hlob (my uncle's wife). My parents also know his family and him from back in the old days. I met him when I was 16 and he was 24. He only visited me in my house once. Then I met him again at 19. By this time I was really in like with him. We spent some time together during the July 4th, and yes we got intimate. The whole time he said he was single. After the weekend, I went back home and a few weeks later I learned that he had gotten married. I was so heart broken because I was really infatuated with him, although we never talked about our feelings for each other or where we stand when we spent July 4th weekend together.  Anyway, I felt so sad and depress for almost a year.

4 years later I go back to July 4th in MN and met his buddy (lets call him John) from a party. John wanted to take me to the movie the next day, but when he came he brought Sam. As I walked towards them I didn't even recognized Sam. It took adjusting my eyes and then he also started talking so then I realized it was him. It was so akward because he went with John and I to see a movie. Every time John leaves to go to the bathroom etc, he would try to talk to me and ask if there is anything between John and I.  I asked John why he brought Sam along and John told me that John had told Sam that he saw me at a party and Sam wanted to come see me.  After the movie, John dropped me off at my  uncle's house. 

The next night my friends and I met with John and his friends to go hang out at the casino. Sam came along too. Every chance I am alone in the hall or further away from the group, Sam would try to come talk to me. 

I was staying at my uncle's house. The next day a guy call asking for my aunt and uncle. I told them they were at work. He then told me he's Sam. I didn't even recognize his voice. Anyway, he started telling me that he love me and always have. I was taken back and obviously didn't believe him. He told me he wanted to drop me off at the airport when I leave. He said he wanted to spend some time with me to talk to me. I knew he was married and had no intention of doing anything with him but I was curious as to what he wanted to say or do so I agree.

The next day he picked me up to drop me at the airport. There was some time so we went to the park to talk. At the park, he started telling me that he have always loved me and wanted to spend more time with me and asked if I can extend my time there with him. He said he would pay for the flight change.  I tried to ask him about his wife  (whom had just given birth to their first child a month ago at the time) but he didn't want to talk about them.  He kept saying he loves me. I told him he's lying and that I don't believe him.

He said he wanted to go to a hotel and I went with him. He paid for a room and we went into the room for about 30 minutes. There he try to kiss me and seduce me. He said he wanted to be intimate with me. I pushed him back and told him he's going to get some but not from me, and made him take me to the airport.  (I never had sex with him at the hotel). I just wanted to waste his money on the hotel.

He dropped me off at the airport and as I flew away I felt such a sense of relief! All those years I was so heart broken because he had gotten married, but now I know what kind of person he is, and I felt so happy that I didn't end up with him.

Fast forward 10 years I married my husband. Upon a funeral within my husband's clan, he came. Again, I didn't recognize him when I saw him again until he came up and said my name. He calls me by my very old name that was given to me at birth, which no one does except the old people.  That's when I learned that he's a distant relative of my husband's clan.

Now that I am married, my cousin invites me and my husband to their events and I have seen him a few times there (bc he's related to my aunt). To be honest I can't stand to look at him and I have no respect for him so I just don't call him at all.

He's come up to shake my husband's hand at events and try to talk to my husband and I. I've told my husband about my past with him and the story above to my husband. He wasn't angry or anything.

yes, he's stalker. yes, he's bad. yes, he just wanted to get inside you... bad and bad all around BUT you're not good as you'd painted yourself to be. First, you thought to pain him by talking to him secretly, "trying to" dig up what's up in his sleeves. secondly, you purposely used him or as you puts it "wasted" his money at the hotel, in which two things can happen unwillingly 1) rape and 2) selfish, self-center of you... you hated him yet you continued to speak of him....you despised him yet you think it was cool to use him in so many evilly ways to get back on him... and for what? for your selfishness? anger? perhaps, jealous?

That's not really "amazing grace" of you  ;) :D :D :2funny: you are just as guilty
 


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